What has Masturbation Done to Your Life? Share Your Story
December 9, 2012
December 9, 2012
July 3, Someone said: Masturbation opens the door to many physical and mental problems. I started when I was 13 years old and found out by accident. Although my friends started before I did; and would ask me if I did, I would say "no, that's nasty", and they would tell me to do it. One night I was taking a bath and began to was my penis with my hand, the sensation that it created with the soap was incredible, then it happened. I has hooked at 13. Over the years, I have experienced hair loss, lack of energy, decreased mental capacity, no social life, poor erection, perverted thoughts, pain in my ass, pain in my testicles, twitching throughout my body, enlarged/swollen prostate, weak pee stream, low self esteem, general weakness, feeling like I have no legs, utter disgust with myself. I'm 26 now not married, no kids, but I recently stopped and all I can say no is that I feel great. It's like my body is making a slow recovery. My hair is even coming back. Pray and the lord will help you quit the porn and masturbation. Eventually you will break this habit. For me, I just quit one day because of the terrible pain I was feeling due to the habit! With the Lord, all things are possible. Pray in the name of Jesus!
July 4, Someone said: Sorry there is a mistake in previous post i.e. i will not get agitated correct is One thing i observed in my life is that, i knew everything about the ill effects of the masturbating and situation how worse it would be after masturbating which is next step after watching porn. And i also knew that if we once try to watch porn subsequently in the same or other day i'll feel extremely to masturbate, but still sometime i am giving small chance to this deadly evil or devil i.e. i'm excited or curious to watch porn.I am ignoring all these facts when i am curious to watch them.And still i am prey to this very enemy within me. This enemy is getting overpowered when i am listening to some real life happenings of mischief porn. I'm trying in all ways to get rid of this but still i am suffering forgetting about all these sufferings at the start of the process. But i am sure that i will overcome this problem and become normal. I define normal means whenever i see bad happening or bad things are shown to me over internet or any other means i will not get agitated to see that content even though it is peculiar or interesting or fascinating. I will definitely become normal because i want to become normal. So friends understand your problem first and then define what you want to. And one more thing don't give any chance to watch porn!
July 6, 2013 Someone said: All i want to say is that keep up the good fight. NEVER EVER LOSE HOPE. This habit is horrendous. Leave it asap. It made me a drop-out. i just dont want any1 else to be the same. All the teenagers, you guys still have time. Get over this habit before completing high school. If you need help, go for it before its toooooo late. And excessive masturbation tendency could also be due to hormonal imbalance. So do go for a check.
July 4, Someone said: Sorry there is a mistake in previous post i.e. i will not get agitated correct is One thing i observed in my life is that, i knew everything about the ill effects of the masturbating and situation how worse it would be after masturbating which is next step after watching porn. And i also knew that if we once try to watch porn subsequently in the same or other day i'll feel extremely to masturbate, but still sometime i am giving small chance to this deadly evil or devil i.e. i'm excited or curious to watch porn.I am ignoring all these facts when i am curious to watch them.And still i am prey to this very enemy within me. This enemy is getting overpowered when i am listening to some real life happenings of mischief porn. I'm trying in all ways to get rid of this but still i am suffering forgetting about all these sufferings at the start of the process. But i am sure that i will overcome this problem and become normal. I define normal means whenever i see bad happening or bad things are shown to me over internet or any other means i will not get agitated to see that content even though it is peculiar or interesting or fascinating. I will definitely become normal because i want to become normal. So friends understand your problem first and then define what you want to. And one more thing don't give any chance to watch porn!
July 6, 2013 Someone said: All i want to say is that keep up the good fight. NEVER EVER LOSE HOPE. This habit is horrendous. Leave it asap. It made me a drop-out. i just dont want any1 else to be the same. All the teenagers, you guys still have time. Get over this habit before completing high school. If you need help, go for it before its toooooo late. And excessive masturbation tendency could also be due to hormonal imbalance. So do go for a check.
July 6, 2013 Someone said: Hello, I'm a 17 years old boy, and I have been masturbating since the age of 10, after 3-4 years I knew that this is a bad habit and I became weak. Since the age of 14 I have been trying to quit this horrible habit. Now, thanks to this great site and your stories I feel like it is the big day, I will follow the tips on this site, I will be optimist, I will forgive my self if I fall again but I will post here again after I have a full month without masturbate. May God be with us, friends. Let's change our lifestyle!!
July 6 Someone said: hi everyone am 18 yr old male.i have masturbated consistently for the past 4 yrs since i joined high school and it has affected my studies,lack of motivation to do tasks,weak mentally and physically,i fear making contact with people,and have always been unsocial.and i am so sick of it.a month ago i discovered this site and it gave me the motivation to stop.i was able to go 16 days without touching my self and it was unbelievable.had loads of energy,nervousness had reduced,my face had cleared 60% of the acne,and i just felt like meeting people,working out,and doing constructive things.it was really good.sadly a week ago i relapsed and its been hard to stop again ever since.i feel terrible for failing.but hey even though i have failed am gonna get up and start again..NO GIVING UP.i just wanted to tell u guys that we can do this.i know its hard but i pray that GOD may help us all overcome/quit this habit for good and become better people.i wish quick recovery and success to all of us
July 7, 2013 Someone said: It ruined my life I lost my sharp memory and I am alone now.I am masturbating from 6year.I become tens less and destroy my carrier.don't do it its harmfull
July 8 Someone said: Hey ther!=D Im turning 19 soon and ive been masturbating since around the age of 10. I was influencd to porn mainly by frens. Masturbation was also my way to take out stress.without knwng it actualy made me more stress.and continuing this habit made me even more horny overtime.i used to abstain for around half a year.nw i can barely go for a week or 2. I was an active kid.now im lazy. I cud concentrate in class.now id slack off n thnk bout porn.Masturbatn does a lot of negativ side effcts to our bodies. It only pulls us away from being the angels we r suppose to b.=) ur choice to make a difference.x)
July 12, Someone said: I am a 19 year old female, and I discovered masturbation around 14. It has never had any serious effect on me, academic or social wise, which is why I don't find it wrong. But lately it has dawned on me I must stop. I have met the guy of my dream and I fear the affects that masturbation may have on our marriage. I love him too much to continue in anything that will jeopardise our relationship. The worst part is that I went to a full time theology school with degrees and certificates, and yet I still struggle with this secret sin. I want to tell someone about it but there is no one I could trust, I ask God for strength but I received no acknowledge on my prayers. I really don't know what to do. But I know I must stop. God, I really wish you're here...
July 12 Someone said: i cant stp masterbatn i woz vry guwd ib class bt wen i strtd masterbatn thngz changd hv bn failn in examz i clp alot in class xo lazy memory capacity low i jst dont knw wat to d i nid help
July 13 Someone said: I am 23 years old, I started masturbation when I was in high school, ten years ago, a friend of mine told me how good and relaxing you feel when you do it, so I decided to go back home and masturbate, after I did so, I slept for four hours, and I woke up afraid and intended not to do it again. A year after, I started to view porn and then this destroying habit started to be a part of my life. The side effects of this habit started when I was 20 when I observed a lack of vitality and my knees started hurting me and I felt weak, few months later, my concentration vanished, I began reading the paragraph three times to know what is telling me, my memory was becoming weak, and I had a back pain that lasted for weeks during which I couldn’t even leave bed. Now I can decide about my life, my career is affected, I lost the interest of all I am doing, I dream about nothing right now for my life. Thank you for your stories, it really alleviates, gives hope and builds determination to stop this evil.
July 6 Someone said: hi everyone am 18 yr old male.i have masturbated consistently for the past 4 yrs since i joined high school and it has affected my studies,lack of motivation to do tasks,weak mentally and physically,i fear making contact with people,and have always been unsocial.and i am so sick of it.a month ago i discovered this site and it gave me the motivation to stop.i was able to go 16 days without touching my self and it was unbelievable.had loads of energy,nervousness had reduced,my face had cleared 60% of the acne,and i just felt like meeting people,working out,and doing constructive things.it was really good.sadly a week ago i relapsed and its been hard to stop again ever since.i feel terrible for failing.but hey even though i have failed am gonna get up and start again..NO GIVING UP.i just wanted to tell u guys that we can do this.i know its hard but i pray that GOD may help us all overcome/quit this habit for good and become better people.i wish quick recovery and success to all of us
July 7, 2013 Someone said: It ruined my life I lost my sharp memory and I am alone now.I am masturbating from 6year.I become tens less and destroy my carrier.don't do it its harmfull
July 8 Someone said: Hey ther!=D Im turning 19 soon and ive been masturbating since around the age of 10. I was influencd to porn mainly by frens. Masturbation was also my way to take out stress.without knwng it actualy made me more stress.and continuing this habit made me even more horny overtime.i used to abstain for around half a year.nw i can barely go for a week or 2. I was an active kid.now im lazy. I cud concentrate in class.now id slack off n thnk bout porn.Masturbatn does a lot of negativ side effcts to our bodies. It only pulls us away from being the angels we r suppose to b.=) ur choice to make a difference.x)
July 12, Someone said: I am a 19 year old female, and I discovered masturbation around 14. It has never had any serious effect on me, academic or social wise, which is why I don't find it wrong. But lately it has dawned on me I must stop. I have met the guy of my dream and I fear the affects that masturbation may have on our marriage. I love him too much to continue in anything that will jeopardise our relationship. The worst part is that I went to a full time theology school with degrees and certificates, and yet I still struggle with this secret sin. I want to tell someone about it but there is no one I could trust, I ask God for strength but I received no acknowledge on my prayers. I really don't know what to do. But I know I must stop. God, I really wish you're here...
July 12 Someone said: i cant stp masterbatn i woz vry guwd ib class bt wen i strtd masterbatn thngz changd hv bn failn in examz i clp alot in class xo lazy memory capacity low i jst dont knw wat to d i nid help
July 13 Someone said: I am 23 years old, I started masturbation when I was in high school, ten years ago, a friend of mine told me how good and relaxing you feel when you do it, so I decided to go back home and masturbate, after I did so, I slept for four hours, and I woke up afraid and intended not to do it again. A year after, I started to view porn and then this destroying habit started to be a part of my life. The side effects of this habit started when I was 20 when I observed a lack of vitality and my knees started hurting me and I felt weak, few months later, my concentration vanished, I began reading the paragraph three times to know what is telling me, my memory was becoming weak, and I had a back pain that lasted for weeks during which I couldn’t even leave bed. Now I can decide about my life, my career is affected, I lost the interest of all I am doing, I dream about nothing right now for my life. Thank you for your stories, it really alleviates, gives hope and builds determination to stop this evil.
July 16 Someone said: OH God............!! I'm 20 years old .I'm doing Masturbation since i was 12 .I'm doing it thousands of time .I try to control it ,but can't .Whenever i promised to not doing it ,every time i broke my promise . I was a good student,but after that gradually i'm doing bad on my study .I have a huge pimple on my Face .I gradually lost my hair.I lost my streanth .I can't concentrated on my study . Even ,I lost my health . I can't talk relatives,friends or unknown people due to my bullshit pimple face .I can't go relatives .It's felt me shy . It's really really harmful for health . PLS PLS PLS EVERYONE PRAY FOR ME THOUGH I STOP IT .PLEASE DON'T DO THIS EVER IN LIFE . MAY GOD BLESS OF ALL US .
July 16 Someone said: Hi I'm a 55 yr old man. Started masturbation around 13 yrs old. I am a christian Married w/4 children. I have tried to stop dozens of times I am now in a celebrate recovery group. To stop u must find a accountability person. And other people who have been down this path and are successful at stopping this compulsive behavior. I have been in the program for 7 months. It working. Just remember this addiction didn't start yesterday. It can awhile to learn why and how to stop. Remember the first step is to tell someone u can trust and listen to your stuff. God Bless u
July 16 Someone said: I am 20 and i use to masturbate since i was 16. the main thing that make me sad for is not about any religious or moral things. it is just about wasting my vital energy. i know that if i could have a relationship with sex inside it i could handle my masturbation and erotic scenes and hentai addiction. but it is hard to make a relationship in my country ( I.R.I) , specially one with sexual benefits. I do yoga and going to mountain Climbing. i have a near vegan diet. but still i haven't stop my habit.
July 16 Someone said: In fact,at first I didn't know masturbation was a callous thing until I realised the severe side effects of it.I started masturbating when I was 14 years old and now 24 years.in fact I can tell everyone that it is a must stop thing because is not good and can reaaly kills your immune system and your sexual life.now I am suffering from back pain,erectile dysfunction,semen leakage,chest pain,premature ejaculation,early ejaculation and finally sexual weakness.please I am still suffering from it so help me through my email.thank you
July 17 Someone said: Hey Guys... I m 19 yrz old....i masturbate thrice a week...and when i masturbate i do get pimples...my face gets oily and dull...i feel lazy whole day and i get negative thoughts daily..Plz help me out from this...I want to stop this addiction...GUYZ PLZ HELP ME OUT...
July 16 Someone said: Hi I'm a 55 yr old man. Started masturbation around 13 yrs old. I am a christian Married w/4 children. I have tried to stop dozens of times I am now in a celebrate recovery group. To stop u must find a accountability person. And other people who have been down this path and are successful at stopping this compulsive behavior. I have been in the program for 7 months. It working. Just remember this addiction didn't start yesterday. It can awhile to learn why and how to stop. Remember the first step is to tell someone u can trust and listen to your stuff. God Bless u
July 16 Someone said: I am 20 and i use to masturbate since i was 16. the main thing that make me sad for is not about any religious or moral things. it is just about wasting my vital energy. i know that if i could have a relationship with sex inside it i could handle my masturbation and erotic scenes and hentai addiction. but it is hard to make a relationship in my country ( I.R.I) , specially one with sexual benefits. I do yoga and going to mountain Climbing. i have a near vegan diet. but still i haven't stop my habit.
July 16 Someone said: In fact,at first I didn't know masturbation was a callous thing until I realised the severe side effects of it.I started masturbating when I was 14 years old and now 24 years.in fact I can tell everyone that it is a must stop thing because is not good and can reaaly kills your immune system and your sexual life.now I am suffering from back pain,erectile dysfunction,semen leakage,chest pain,premature ejaculation,early ejaculation and finally sexual weakness.please I am still suffering from it so help me through my email.thank you
July 17 Someone said: Hey Guys... I m 19 yrz old....i masturbate thrice a week...and when i masturbate i do get pimples...my face gets oily and dull...i feel lazy whole day and i get negative thoughts daily..Plz help me out from this...I want to stop this addiction...GUYZ PLZ HELP ME OUT...
July 18, 2013 Someone said: I m from INDIA... I started doing masturbation when i was 15 years old.. I was very very smart and my skin was glowing and healthy... but today when i turned 20...all characteristics of mine mentioned above have been lost...i m nothing today...but today me got a chance to get back my whole characters which i had earlier... Thanks to the team...May GOD bless you all...because you gave the way to those people which were lost somewhere...I promise that from today i will never ever masturbate....I will never ever think of this... Thanks GUYz Take care...!!! :) <3
July 18, 2013 Someone said: hello friends i started masturbating from class 9..i was a very bright student and my memory power was very good but as years rolled in for 10 years now i couldn't stop it..now i am perusing my higher studies..i have read a simple thing many times to remember it...i have a loss of memory..my digestive system has gone very weak but this bad thing leaves me less determination to my goal.i can not wake up early.becoz i feel every time very tired...i do have a girlfriend..she supports me a lot to overcome this addiction...but i have developed a peculiar habit of masturbation....when i am sad or happy or stressed..i do it and find myself relief for some time....all this problem u will also face if u do not stop masturbating..so please stop it..i have started playing games like cricket,,vollyball...started gym..teaching some student..try to be as busy as possible..do as much as good thing u want donate some food...give some of ur savings to poor...this will devlop ur confidence ...remember one thing....ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO BE GOOD
July 18 Someone said: I am 14 years old. I have been masturbating since 13, a couple times everyday, in the last couple months I found out how bad it really is. IT IS RUINING MY LIFE! I feel depressed and used to cry afterwards. I lost some interest in girls and gained some interest in guys! This never happened before and I blame it on masturbation because it never happened before. I always feel tired. Recently I have started to get this weird thing were when I move quickly my eyes completely black out! Never happened before but now it happens every day. My lower back feels sore sometimes. I have basically felt all the effects listed.I told my dad 3-4 months ago, so happy I had the courage to do it. My family is very strong Catholic Christian and he wasn't mad, just sad and is helping me to this day and I am so thankful for that. One thing I have to say is GET HELP YOU CANT DO TIS ON YOUR OWN!
July 18 Someone said: I am 14 years old. I have been masturbating since 13, a couple times everyday, in the last couple months I found out how bad it really is. IT IS RUINING MY LIFE! I feel depressed and used to cry afterwards. I lost some interest in girls and gained some interest in guys! This never happened before and I blame it on masturbation because it never happened before. I always feel tired. Recently I have started to get this weird thing were when I move quickly my eyes completely black out! Never happened before but now it happens every day. My lower back feels sore sometimes. I have basically felt all the effects listed.I told my dad 3-4 months ago, so happy I had the courage to do it. My family is very strong Catholic Christian and he wasn't mad, just sad and is helping me to this day and I am so thankful for that. One thing I have to say is GET HELP YOU CANT DO TIS ON YOUR OWN!