What has Masturbation Done to Your Life? Share Your Story
December 9, 2012
December 9, 2012
Please share how masturbation has affected your life. How has masturbation affected your relationships, confidence, and health? Do you think your life would be better or worse if you did not have an addiction to masturbation? Do you wish you never started masturbating? Why? Please use the form below to share your story.
September 9 Someone said: can't focus on studies, can't remember the things around, feeling that my life is not in my control, Best thing to avoid this is to pray, If ever you want to masturbate just go away to another place and don't watch the things which will tempt you to head for masturbation. I hope that i will leave this degrading habit
September 8 Someone said: Hi, am 25 and I've been masturbating since 15. I cant start telling u what it did to my life, nearly ruined me. I know i would hv been a better person thn i am nw if i hadnt started( i had soo much potential). Coming here hs made me realise tht its the feeling of guilt tht hs kept me bonded to this evil act( y stop nw whn u hv done it fr 10 yrs n ruined ur life)? Bt reading ur stories hv made me realise tht its nt too late. I can still b a great man. Better late than never ryt. Starting today, i will ask God to forgive me, then i will forgive myself, then i will pray that He restores all tht this demonic act has stolen frm me. I thank God for ur lifes. Its nt going to be easy bt witht God all things are possible. My battle with masturbation is over. God won. Peace
September 6 Someone said: my name is ************* am from Nigerian.I started masturbating when I was 13 now am 16 going to 17 I still masturbate. I can not focus again because any time I think about masturbation only and necked girls or any time I see porn I masturbate please can somebody pray for me because I need healing.don't try masturbation. I have become a slave to this addiction.
September 5 Someone said: I am a girl of 16,i started masturbating when i was 13.I opened my vagina(my virginity) by myself while masturbating.I used different kinds of things to masturbate.I have tried to stop several times but its not working.Every time i masturbate,i feel guilty,i am always depressed and i feel pain in my clitoris.I want to stop this evil act, Somebody help me
September 5 Someone said: I am From INDIA ....i m 27 years old boy and addicted to porn .....i don't know how to stop it....in INDIA i can't do it in real as it is supposed perverted here....so i attracted to porn sites when i was 20 year old.....after watching porn i became uncontrollable and soon addicted to masturbation..i want to stop it now.....plzz help me brothers and sisters ....... Through my email ***********************
August 25 Someone said: Please read all these stories, my story is the same, I regret ever watching porn for it has ruined me, please strictly don't watch PORN......
August 23 Someone said: Hi guys I have been a victim of this illness called masturbation for 9years I still cant figure out any positive thing from masturbation,rather I wil count the ONLY NEGATIVE EFFECTS which include low self esteem lost of memory lack of concentration me looking older than my elder brother etc I have a strong believe this cup has been taken from me.tanks guys for your comments there are motivating anonymous from Nigeria
August 20 Someone said: I'm a 26yrs old single guy, a very studious and competitive student, but recently I've become addicted to pornography and masturbation, 3 times daily. Its been a very big distraction to me but thanks to God that am not in academic section now because this thing is making me lazy. The books I brought home to read, I've not read any further of them for two months now due to porn n masturbation. The guilt that follows this thing use to be too much on me, I've decided severally to stop it but I keep falling, I even did it today. I've prayed and am believing that by Gods grace I will be triumphant this time. Thanks to this site cause am motivated. Guys We must stop this thing before it ruins us. It distracts you from ur purpose in life. Be offensive this time, discard every possible route to it now.
August 17 Someone said: You can grow up, but whenever you fall you fall DOWN. I said, "k I'll stop." But guess who I texted right after I left the program? It was an ungodly thing. I fantasized much about her. We skyped a lot and texted all day every day, made phone calls a lot, etc. I come from a background where I used to get on webcams with women and do bad things, and that was starting to seep into my mind and eventually started coming out in nuances and implications (I was a very sly little boy) and would fantasize about that happening between her and I. I think something we need to remember the most is this is a healing PROCESS. We don't just break a leg, then take a pill and start walking. It takes time. Abide in God, when we trust in Jesus and get back up again and walk that tight rope He's given you with your hand in His. He's promised to never leave nor forsake His people. Even when Peter denied Him, He did not look at Peter with anger, only pitying love for His disciple. That Peter who denied Christ turned into one of the best evangelists this world has known. Submit to Jesus and trust Him. Please pray for me, too.
August 15 Someone said: Masturbation is corrosive acid to the soul. My soul is burned and scarred from addiction to porn and this habit.
August 11 Someone said: Guys it is true that this piece of @##$ can ruin your life. I started this act while i was 16 now i am 24. This devilish act is addictive and it lowers ones self esteem, if u haven't tried it please don't and if ur a victim like please find all means to put an end to it. You can do this by hanging up with frnds and stopping the attitude of watching porn. Soletude is one major cause of masturbation so trie to engaged in some kind of work
August 5 Someone said: I am very grateful to all of you for your contribution. It really helps to lift the spirit. I know that the devil will definitely lose his grip over us.I used to think I was the only person with such disgusting habit making me want to kill myself. We kill our body for some few seconds pleasure.
September 8 Someone said: Hi, am 25 and I've been masturbating since 15. I cant start telling u what it did to my life, nearly ruined me. I know i would hv been a better person thn i am nw if i hadnt started( i had soo much potential). Coming here hs made me realise tht its the feeling of guilt tht hs kept me bonded to this evil act( y stop nw whn u hv done it fr 10 yrs n ruined ur life)? Bt reading ur stories hv made me realise tht its nt too late. I can still b a great man. Better late than never ryt. Starting today, i will ask God to forgive me, then i will forgive myself, then i will pray that He restores all tht this demonic act has stolen frm me. I thank God for ur lifes. Its nt going to be easy bt witht God all things are possible. My battle with masturbation is over. God won. Peace
September 6 Someone said: my name is ************* am from Nigerian.I started masturbating when I was 13 now am 16 going to 17 I still masturbate. I can not focus again because any time I think about masturbation only and necked girls or any time I see porn I masturbate please can somebody pray for me because I need healing.don't try masturbation. I have become a slave to this addiction.
September 5 Someone said: I am a girl of 16,i started masturbating when i was 13.I opened my vagina(my virginity) by myself while masturbating.I used different kinds of things to masturbate.I have tried to stop several times but its not working.Every time i masturbate,i feel guilty,i am always depressed and i feel pain in my clitoris.I want to stop this evil act, Somebody help me
September 5 Someone said: I am From INDIA ....i m 27 years old boy and addicted to porn .....i don't know how to stop it....in INDIA i can't do it in real as it is supposed perverted here....so i attracted to porn sites when i was 20 year old.....after watching porn i became uncontrollable and soon addicted to masturbation..i want to stop it now.....plzz help me brothers and sisters ....... Through my email ***********************
August 25 Someone said: Please read all these stories, my story is the same, I regret ever watching porn for it has ruined me, please strictly don't watch PORN......
August 23 Someone said: Hi guys I have been a victim of this illness called masturbation for 9years I still cant figure out any positive thing from masturbation,rather I wil count the ONLY NEGATIVE EFFECTS which include low self esteem lost of memory lack of concentration me looking older than my elder brother etc I have a strong believe this cup has been taken from me.tanks guys for your comments there are motivating anonymous from Nigeria
August 20 Someone said: I'm a 26yrs old single guy, a very studious and competitive student, but recently I've become addicted to pornography and masturbation, 3 times daily. Its been a very big distraction to me but thanks to God that am not in academic section now because this thing is making me lazy. The books I brought home to read, I've not read any further of them for two months now due to porn n masturbation. The guilt that follows this thing use to be too much on me, I've decided severally to stop it but I keep falling, I even did it today. I've prayed and am believing that by Gods grace I will be triumphant this time. Thanks to this site cause am motivated. Guys We must stop this thing before it ruins us. It distracts you from ur purpose in life. Be offensive this time, discard every possible route to it now.
August 17 Someone said: You can grow up, but whenever you fall you fall DOWN. I said, "k I'll stop." But guess who I texted right after I left the program? It was an ungodly thing. I fantasized much about her. We skyped a lot and texted all day every day, made phone calls a lot, etc. I come from a background where I used to get on webcams with women and do bad things, and that was starting to seep into my mind and eventually started coming out in nuances and implications (I was a very sly little boy) and would fantasize about that happening between her and I. I think something we need to remember the most is this is a healing PROCESS. We don't just break a leg, then take a pill and start walking. It takes time. Abide in God, when we trust in Jesus and get back up again and walk that tight rope He's given you with your hand in His. He's promised to never leave nor forsake His people. Even when Peter denied Him, He did not look at Peter with anger, only pitying love for His disciple. That Peter who denied Christ turned into one of the best evangelists this world has known. Submit to Jesus and trust Him. Please pray for me, too.
August 15 Someone said: Masturbation is corrosive acid to the soul. My soul is burned and scarred from addiction to porn and this habit.
August 11 Someone said: Guys it is true that this piece of @##$ can ruin your life. I started this act while i was 16 now i am 24. This devilish act is addictive and it lowers ones self esteem, if u haven't tried it please don't and if ur a victim like please find all means to put an end to it. You can do this by hanging up with frnds and stopping the attitude of watching porn. Soletude is one major cause of masturbation so trie to engaged in some kind of work
August 5 Someone said: I am very grateful to all of you for your contribution. It really helps to lift the spirit. I know that the devil will definitely lose his grip over us.I used to think I was the only person with such disgusting habit making me want to kill myself. We kill our body for some few seconds pleasure.
July 30 Someone said : hi guys i am 24 years old n i started the habit immediately after class eight. this habit has ruined my life and I wish I never knew about it. please please guys dont dont dont and dont involve yourself in masturbation it is disastrous and evil....from Kenya
July 29 Someone said: hello friends i am 18yrs old i have be masturbating for close a year now and i dont find it comfortable i am begin to have lose memories i pay less attention on girls and i am not happy with it plz u people can pray for me Satan have come to destroy our teenagers with this devilish attitudes lord pleas help me amen
July 29 Someone said: hello friends i am 18yrs old i have be masturbating for close a year now and i dont find it comfortable i am begin to have lose memories i pay less attention on girls and i am not happy with it plz u people can pray for me Satan have come to destroy our teenagers with this devilish attitudes lord pleas help me amen
July 26 Someone said: i was searching for how to stop masturbation until i got into dis its very good,cause masturbation has ruined my life to extent that I've been masturbating since i was 6 now 18 i don't have girlfriends because no confidence and always shy n nervous..... this habit makes me feel like a gay....dis is driving me crazy...i cant sleep throughout pls help me m in trouble
July 25 Someone said: I'm 22, i always masturbate and it is paining me please help me i want to completely stop it
July 25 Someone said: I am from Zimbabwe I started masturbation at 15 now I am thirty. I am always weak ive tried stopping but I have failed.I Wont give up but I can confirm it has ruined my life. I pray Jesus will heal me and many others out there
July 17 Someone said: I am an Asian guy, where sex is forbidden. I was addicted at age of 15 and I didn't know what sex is. At 29, i determined to stop, but ejaculation became habit for body. Ejaculation was occurring in sleep, without dream or thoughts. This was going for 2 years. I got nervous problem like mild Parkinson, Bipolar disorder, depression, epilepsy, Rheumatic problems etc... Unlike developed country, we have to earn good to live in society with safety & at least not disrespectfully. My whole family, will be suffer if i do something shameful like this. i want to die, but for my mother, she is very emotionally attached to me, i not doing so. I am living life like hell. Shameful life. I ask God do not give such hell life like i have.
July 13 Someone said: Hi, I'm a 19 yr old girl, i dnt knw how long I've masturbated. Its terrible. At first i enjoyed it and as time went on i felt like i was losing my mind. I want to stop, it has turned in to a nightmare, my life into a mess. I want my life back, plz help its killing me.
July 11 Someone said: Masturbation has destroyed my life. I am suffering from extreme depression , social anxiety , mood swings , premature ejaculation , physical weakness etc and many more. Life becomes so grayish now , there is no joy in life. Trust me, don't believe those illiterate punks saying that "masturbation is totally healthy" . To lead a happy and successful life i request you all to be away from this evil habit.
July 10 Someone said; I have been keeping this habit for over 3years now. And I so much hate myself... Lost confidence, memory, shaky body, depreciation in sight... I'm not whom I used to be back then anymore.. But now I know my weakness. Which is porn. Anytime I watch pornography I masturbate.. But I can't help keep off this habit. The least I have done is I didn't masturbate for a month... But I still find myself doing it. But today I have deleted porns, YouTube and all sort of ponorgraphy. Whenever the urge comes.. I engage myself In some thing else.... God help me
July 10 Someone said: i am from Nigeria, masturbation is a bad habit. For you to get out of this mess, take the following steps::1) you need to stop watching porn videos (2)anything related sex magazine (3)strong determination that you l'll never go back to it and lastly(4) be prayerful, prayer is the master key. I started it when i was 17 and am 28 this yrs. When i started, i masturbate every week in a month, but to the glory of God Almighty i started controlling my self up to this moment. This demonic character have been giving me alot of stress in my life.
July 10 Someone said: Its very dangerous habit. Plz guys dont do it.i dont want anyone to suffer from what i had gone through.
July 9 Someone said: It ruined my life totally . It steal my happiness completely .Its better to say that it killed me. I have no friends, no confidence and no self respect. I wish that i had not started it.
July 8 Someone said: Hi, I started masturbating when I was about 14 though I didn't know it was called that. It became a strong addiction when a friend told me what it is and how he also does it. I can relate with everyone here. I experience all the side effects listed above: low memory retention power, general body weakness, persistent pains in my knee, ankle and knuckle which makes it difficult for me to walk, run, squat or do domestic chores easily; lack motivation to study, laziness, now am very slim, very shy, low self esteem, lack confidence etc. All these have made me miss out on opportunities and I have been stagnant for the past 10yrs since I graduated from secondary school. I have searched for the cause of my problems all these years, putting blames on my parents and friends for my condition. This website is truly an eye-opener. Reading other people experience has made me realised that my problem is MASTURBATION. I have tried several times to stop this habit, there was a time(last year) I succeeded for 1 whole year, again I relapse and went back doing it again. I think the solution lies in resolved DETERMINATION and CONVICTION with of course LOTS OF PRAYERS and CONSISTENCY.
July 6 Someone said: I am 13 years old and right now I am in state of crying,please someone help me I am really addicted to masturbation. This is so embarrassing. This is like hell. i am a muslim and my religion does not allow this but instead of that i do masturbate please somebody guide me what to do. i have even watched videos against masturbation but i can not stop . I m feeling very depressed . I want to kill myself . especially after reading all the comments above I am really scared about my future everybody has huge expectations from me.Should i tell my father about this?
July 25 Someone said: I'm 22, i always masturbate and it is paining me please help me i want to completely stop it
July 25 Someone said: I am from Zimbabwe I started masturbation at 15 now I am thirty. I am always weak ive tried stopping but I have failed.I Wont give up but I can confirm it has ruined my life. I pray Jesus will heal me and many others out there
July 17 Someone said: I am an Asian guy, where sex is forbidden. I was addicted at age of 15 and I didn't know what sex is. At 29, i determined to stop, but ejaculation became habit for body. Ejaculation was occurring in sleep, without dream or thoughts. This was going for 2 years. I got nervous problem like mild Parkinson, Bipolar disorder, depression, epilepsy, Rheumatic problems etc... Unlike developed country, we have to earn good to live in society with safety & at least not disrespectfully. My whole family, will be suffer if i do something shameful like this. i want to die, but for my mother, she is very emotionally attached to me, i not doing so. I am living life like hell. Shameful life. I ask God do not give such hell life like i have.
July 13 Someone said: Hi, I'm a 19 yr old girl, i dnt knw how long I've masturbated. Its terrible. At first i enjoyed it and as time went on i felt like i was losing my mind. I want to stop, it has turned in to a nightmare, my life into a mess. I want my life back, plz help its killing me.
July 11 Someone said: Masturbation has destroyed my life. I am suffering from extreme depression , social anxiety , mood swings , premature ejaculation , physical weakness etc and many more. Life becomes so grayish now , there is no joy in life. Trust me, don't believe those illiterate punks saying that "masturbation is totally healthy" . To lead a happy and successful life i request you all to be away from this evil habit.
July 10 Someone said; I have been keeping this habit for over 3years now. And I so much hate myself... Lost confidence, memory, shaky body, depreciation in sight... I'm not whom I used to be back then anymore.. But now I know my weakness. Which is porn. Anytime I watch pornography I masturbate.. But I can't help keep off this habit. The least I have done is I didn't masturbate for a month... But I still find myself doing it. But today I have deleted porns, YouTube and all sort of ponorgraphy. Whenever the urge comes.. I engage myself In some thing else.... God help me
July 10 Someone said: i am from Nigeria, masturbation is a bad habit. For you to get out of this mess, take the following steps::1) you need to stop watching porn videos (2)anything related sex magazine (3)strong determination that you l'll never go back to it and lastly(4) be prayerful, prayer is the master key. I started it when i was 17 and am 28 this yrs. When i started, i masturbate every week in a month, but to the glory of God Almighty i started controlling my self up to this moment. This demonic character have been giving me alot of stress in my life.
July 10 Someone said: Its very dangerous habit. Plz guys dont do it.i dont want anyone to suffer from what i had gone through.
July 9 Someone said: It ruined my life totally . It steal my happiness completely .Its better to say that it killed me. I have no friends, no confidence and no self respect. I wish that i had not started it.
July 8 Someone said: Hi, I started masturbating when I was about 14 though I didn't know it was called that. It became a strong addiction when a friend told me what it is and how he also does it. I can relate with everyone here. I experience all the side effects listed above: low memory retention power, general body weakness, persistent pains in my knee, ankle and knuckle which makes it difficult for me to walk, run, squat or do domestic chores easily; lack motivation to study, laziness, now am very slim, very shy, low self esteem, lack confidence etc. All these have made me miss out on opportunities and I have been stagnant for the past 10yrs since I graduated from secondary school. I have searched for the cause of my problems all these years, putting blames on my parents and friends for my condition. This website is truly an eye-opener. Reading other people experience has made me realised that my problem is MASTURBATION. I have tried several times to stop this habit, there was a time(last year) I succeeded for 1 whole year, again I relapse and went back doing it again. I think the solution lies in resolved DETERMINATION and CONVICTION with of course LOTS OF PRAYERS and CONSISTENCY.
July 6 Someone said: I am 13 years old and right now I am in state of crying,please someone help me I am really addicted to masturbation. This is so embarrassing. This is like hell. i am a muslim and my religion does not allow this but instead of that i do masturbate please somebody guide me what to do. i have even watched videos against masturbation but i can not stop . I m feeling very depressed . I want to kill myself . especially after reading all the comments above I am really scared about my future everybody has huge expectations from me.Should i tell my father about this?
June 28 Someone said: I started masturbating at the age of 12yrs, my cousin introduced it to me am now 20yrs and living in hell.I have never been in a relationship only living a life of fantisy,I am sorry the day I started please if you have not started please do not it is a silent killer.but prayer can breaks every chain.
June 23 Someone said: Hi friends I'm a student and I started masturbation since 2013. its negative effect on my life is decrease my remembering,speech ability & weakining strength of motivation
June 19 Someone said: I have been masturbating since 13 years old. Now i am 25 years old. I have receding hairline, weaken body, no luck and retarded. I have no friends or girlfriend. Don't masturbate. Masturbate = suicide.
June 16 Someone said: now i am 21. I used to masturbate when i was 16. It makes me very thin, ugly, loss of concentration in study etc.
June 14 Someone said: i'm about to turn 21 and i started dis devil act when i was 16,my life changes everyday,i failed my 1st year in university due to masturbation my memory became temporary don't even know wat to do to get back my old days i wish if didn't know this horrible misunderstand and even um about to break with my girlfriend due to this laziness in my mind from morning to evening i do nothing
June 13 Someone said: hi everyone my name is j******. I am happy when I saw this post. there are thousands of youth fighting this horrible devilish and destiny killer called masturbation. I started masturbating when I finished my secondary education that's 2013. nobody taught me how to do it. it was only pornography that I was struggling with until one day I was watching pornography and I touched myself. I loved it I started doing it everyday sometimes twice or three times it made me do horrible things like sleeping with my cousin. that was a shameful thing for me to do sleeping with my beautiful cousin. she also loved pornography. I thought that was enjoyment free sex and pornography.I never knew that I was digging a sizeable grave for myself. months later my cousin started shunning me when I approach her. then I went on to masturbate like before. I started hating myself. I looked bad. I stopped dreaming about a brighter future my hopes where all lost. Early 2014 I met a girl we became friends suddenly it clicked we started kissing and I said to myself now my problems are gone no more masturbation but I never know that I was wrong I saw myself doing that same thing . I was unhappy, girlfriends don't put a stop to the life of masturbation. guys I now saw this monster coming into my life with full force. I became helpless crying for my life . I tried suicide but it failed,I thought I was mad. I now know that am not the only one suffering but thanks be to God who saved me I promised him that I won't go back to it(masturbation) and I will tell the world about this deadly killer.
June 12 Someone said: i am a 16 year old guy, who accidentally masturbated while bathing at the age of 13 and its been 3 years of regular masturbation and it really had some drastic effects on ruined everything, it even destroyed everything but i pledge that from today i'll never masturbate
June 12 Someone said: I started masturbation and porn at the age of 24 now I am 26. after that I will have feeling of guilty, depression , anxiety, tiredness , palpitation & sweating. masturbation is sin. it is work of devil. I have to stop masturbation before masturbation destroys me. I will never give up because I believe in God and everything is possible to him. I have to pray pray alot so that the almighty God will takes away this dirty addiction from me.
June 12 Someone said: I stopped masturbating for like 45 days...which off course was huge...but i then i again started watching porn and masturbated...and after 15 days i again masturbated... I am very confused how to stop it as i was in great control and it started again
June 11 Someone said: im 25 almost 26 yrs old. started masturbating wen i was around 10 yrs. i saw porn wen i was 9 for the frst tym wen a family frend was watchin it at our house. it led me to almost having homosexual sex wth 2 people on 2 occasions and i was just 8 or 9. i almost had sex wth another boy because of porn and masturbation became a habit. at scool i was the best but gradually i failed especially in high school. evry1 started hatin me fo no reason afta i started masturbatin.porn and masturbation attracts bad luck and demonic activity. afta i masturbate i feel weak and a recurring thought in my mind that i should just die or hang myself. the 1 thing that has preventd me is coz i dont want to hurt my mother by killing myself. my spiritual life is dead. i cant progress. i cld go on and on about this thing. i dont kno if i wl ever win this battle. if ther is any1 willing out ther pray fo me bfo i self-destruct.
June 23 Someone said: Hi friends I'm a student and I started masturbation since 2013. its negative effect on my life is decrease my remembering,speech ability & weakining strength of motivation
June 19 Someone said: I have been masturbating since 13 years old. Now i am 25 years old. I have receding hairline, weaken body, no luck and retarded. I have no friends or girlfriend. Don't masturbate. Masturbate = suicide.
June 16 Someone said: now i am 21. I used to masturbate when i was 16. It makes me very thin, ugly, loss of concentration in study etc.
June 14 Someone said: i'm about to turn 21 and i started dis devil act when i was 16,my life changes everyday,i failed my 1st year in university due to masturbation my memory became temporary don't even know wat to do to get back my old days i wish if didn't know this horrible misunderstand and even um about to break with my girlfriend due to this laziness in my mind from morning to evening i do nothing
June 13 Someone said: hi everyone my name is j******. I am happy when I saw this post. there are thousands of youth fighting this horrible devilish and destiny killer called masturbation. I started masturbating when I finished my secondary education that's 2013. nobody taught me how to do it. it was only pornography that I was struggling with until one day I was watching pornography and I touched myself. I loved it I started doing it everyday sometimes twice or three times it made me do horrible things like sleeping with my cousin. that was a shameful thing for me to do sleeping with my beautiful cousin. she also loved pornography. I thought that was enjoyment free sex and pornography.I never knew that I was digging a sizeable grave for myself. months later my cousin started shunning me when I approach her. then I went on to masturbate like before. I started hating myself. I looked bad. I stopped dreaming about a brighter future my hopes where all lost. Early 2014 I met a girl we became friends suddenly it clicked we started kissing and I said to myself now my problems are gone no more masturbation but I never know that I was wrong I saw myself doing that same thing . I was unhappy, girlfriends don't put a stop to the life of masturbation. guys I now saw this monster coming into my life with full force. I became helpless crying for my life . I tried suicide but it failed,I thought I was mad. I now know that am not the only one suffering but thanks be to God who saved me I promised him that I won't go back to it(masturbation) and I will tell the world about this deadly killer.
June 12 Someone said: i am a 16 year old guy, who accidentally masturbated while bathing at the age of 13 and its been 3 years of regular masturbation and it really had some drastic effects on ruined everything, it even destroyed everything but i pledge that from today i'll never masturbate
June 12 Someone said: I started masturbation and porn at the age of 24 now I am 26. after that I will have feeling of guilty, depression , anxiety, tiredness , palpitation & sweating. masturbation is sin. it is work of devil. I have to stop masturbation before masturbation destroys me. I will never give up because I believe in God and everything is possible to him. I have to pray pray alot so that the almighty God will takes away this dirty addiction from me.
June 12 Someone said: I stopped masturbating for like 45 days...which off course was huge...but i then i again started watching porn and masturbated...and after 15 days i again masturbated... I am very confused how to stop it as i was in great control and it started again
June 11 Someone said: im 25 almost 26 yrs old. started masturbating wen i was around 10 yrs. i saw porn wen i was 9 for the frst tym wen a family frend was watchin it at our house. it led me to almost having homosexual sex wth 2 people on 2 occasions and i was just 8 or 9. i almost had sex wth another boy because of porn and masturbation became a habit. at scool i was the best but gradually i failed especially in high school. evry1 started hatin me fo no reason afta i started masturbatin.porn and masturbation attracts bad luck and demonic activity. afta i masturbate i feel weak and a recurring thought in my mind that i should just die or hang myself. the 1 thing that has preventd me is coz i dont want to hurt my mother by killing myself. my spiritual life is dead. i cant progress. i cld go on and on about this thing. i dont kno if i wl ever win this battle. if ther is any1 willing out ther pray fo me bfo i self-destruct.
June 7 Someone said: first time that i started masturbation i had a good feeling . but now (after 1 year) i feel so bad when i do it . i feel so depressed i believe in god but at that time i didn't know that masturbation is a sin. and now im trying to not look at pornography photos and not to think about them i will pray for you all guys
June 1 Someone said: masturbating has made me confused about life.I wish I had not started.I have wounds on my penis I feel very bad and guilty I just. want to stop.I embarrassing.
June 1 Someone said: masturbating has made me confused about life.I wish I had not started.I have wounds on my penis I feel very bad and guilty I just. want to stop.I embarrassing.
May 30 Someone said: This site is Truly the most helpful site ever created.god bless the person who did it! When i got into the share story site,i totally caught up in it.i found myself in those stories narrated by persons who have the same problem exactly like mine. I am male,22 years old and studying law. My parents used to tell me to stay aways from drugs.so i did,i used to work out and though i Don't study,i had good marks in my class.but they didn't tell me or at least discuss with me about these issues openly. Then that day came 11 years ago when the neighbors' kid told me about this miraculous satisfaction you get just by rubbing your penis. So later on i liked the feeling of it and kept on doing it afterwards. When i was from 11-13 years of age i had these sexual fantasies which added a fuel to the spark.then the other contributor for this flame is sex tapes and bad peers then comes the web....as time goes by i started to become someone different,someone weird and a stranger to my self.i just lost my touch!then the rest of my story is you guys! Tip;dont get lonely and make yourself busy!
May 29 Someone said: Ever since I viewed some pornographic pictures online with a friend have started masturbating its been going on for like 5yrs now tried 2 stop but its like its impossible I need your help
May 24 Someone said; it ruined my life. Now i am 30. totally destroyed my life.
May 21 Someone said: Its the worst part of my life,living all alone by yourself,I used to hav a very big penis but now its gradually shrinking as a result of this disgusting habit, I broke free from it at some point but I returned to it again...it has affected my relationship with everyone and I'm fighting hard with myself to stop it....please if you are a slave to this ""start the fight now to end it...cause it can change your future"
May 18 Someone said: Hi I am from india and started masterbution at the age of 14 and now I am 20 years old I used to do it 3 or 4 time in a day daily it became my addiction and now I feel tired my memory and eyes is weak I am very poor at study I always feel tired but now from last 1 month I stop it and hope I will stop it forever plz guys stop it otherwise yr feature will be destroyed like my plz plz I look like old
May 14 Someone said: I'm now at the age of 20. I didn't know what masturbation was till 19 yrs. But unfortunately the bad impacts of some of my friends worked on me and i started masturbating for about the last 1 yr. Day to day i got addicted to this evil habit and i did it frequently. Despite of knowing the bad effects i can't stop it. Now i feel very guilty about this,always stay in depression,lost my concentration,memory power,confidence and all the good habits. I wish if i could be as i was before 1 year..oh god save me.
May 3 Someone said: I envy those who have been able to stop this evil practice for sometime like 5 months,1year ,2years or even more to still keep the fire burning in them by still building upon their will power because I manage to stop this act for 2 years 6 months and latter got my self involve again,because but I never new much about building on my will power.,BUT I there ask for God power for you guys stay bless
May 2 Someone said: guys stop stop masturbating i started this evil since 2006 i had 13 years now i have 23 years still addicted but my life state has been fall in longest hole i remember i was clever but all have gone guys if you did not test do not even think to do it because the devil power shall be inside you and it shall be hard for stooping it just like me,now i am in strong war for bring back lost life please stop stop stop!
April 28 Someone said: am**** , i have masturbated for about 10 years. It has contributed to my failure in class, my lack of confidence and also to my low memory which implies that i forget something so easily, infact this masturbating stuff is a menice 2 my life,i'm not physically and mentally okay. This all as a result of masturbating. I hope that from this day i will stop masturbating. Pls pray 4 me.
April 15 Someone said: I'm 17 years old. I have been masturbating since 12, I also found this stupid thing while bathing. I became very very unsocial and became rude person, I stopped to care about anything, I even stopped studying And also i don't even speak to girls because of this thing. Luckily I left this thing for 2 weeks and I was good, I became social, started talking to everyone and even I stopped thinking bad about girls and also the ance in my Face vanished but now I again started to this thing, ance started to appear on face again and this ruined everythin AND ONE MORE THING, PLEASE DON'T TELL OTHERS EVEN UR FRIENDS THAT UR MASTURBATING I HAD BAD EXPERIENCE AFTER TELLING THAT IM MASTURBATING. And one more thing don't feel depressed. Please this should work. Please please please!!!
April 14 Someone said: hello friends i m rajv... I have started this bad hafffit since last three months . But i wanna to stop it any how because i hv to struggle in my life it is really destroying my life earlier i do it2_3times per day. I hv a feeling of tingling in my head . In legs.hands . I feel no strength in my qhole body . Please help me what i do . U dont believe that i masturbated during my board exam this year . What i do pla. Help me . I m innocent help me pleas
April 12 Someone said: I Am stopping it today I swear, never to do it again.
May 29 Someone said: Ever since I viewed some pornographic pictures online with a friend have started masturbating its been going on for like 5yrs now tried 2 stop but its like its impossible I need your help
May 24 Someone said; it ruined my life. Now i am 30. totally destroyed my life.
May 21 Someone said: Its the worst part of my life,living all alone by yourself,I used to hav a very big penis but now its gradually shrinking as a result of this disgusting habit, I broke free from it at some point but I returned to it again...it has affected my relationship with everyone and I'm fighting hard with myself to stop it....please if you are a slave to this ""start the fight now to end it...cause it can change your future"
May 18 Someone said: Hi I am from india and started masterbution at the age of 14 and now I am 20 years old I used to do it 3 or 4 time in a day daily it became my addiction and now I feel tired my memory and eyes is weak I am very poor at study I always feel tired but now from last 1 month I stop it and hope I will stop it forever plz guys stop it otherwise yr feature will be destroyed like my plz plz I look like old
May 14 Someone said: I'm now at the age of 20. I didn't know what masturbation was till 19 yrs. But unfortunately the bad impacts of some of my friends worked on me and i started masturbating for about the last 1 yr. Day to day i got addicted to this evil habit and i did it frequently. Despite of knowing the bad effects i can't stop it. Now i feel very guilty about this,always stay in depression,lost my concentration,memory power,confidence and all the good habits. I wish if i could be as i was before 1 year..oh god save me.
May 3 Someone said: I envy those who have been able to stop this evil practice for sometime like 5 months,1year ,2years or even more to still keep the fire burning in them by still building upon their will power because I manage to stop this act for 2 years 6 months and latter got my self involve again,because but I never new much about building on my will power.,BUT I there ask for God power for you guys stay bless
May 2 Someone said: guys stop stop masturbating i started this evil since 2006 i had 13 years now i have 23 years still addicted but my life state has been fall in longest hole i remember i was clever but all have gone guys if you did not test do not even think to do it because the devil power shall be inside you and it shall be hard for stooping it just like me,now i am in strong war for bring back lost life please stop stop stop!
April 28 Someone said: am**** , i have masturbated for about 10 years. It has contributed to my failure in class, my lack of confidence and also to my low memory which implies that i forget something so easily, infact this masturbating stuff is a menice 2 my life,i'm not physically and mentally okay. This all as a result of masturbating. I hope that from this day i will stop masturbating. Pls pray 4 me.
April 15 Someone said: I'm 17 years old. I have been masturbating since 12, I also found this stupid thing while bathing. I became very very unsocial and became rude person, I stopped to care about anything, I even stopped studying And also i don't even speak to girls because of this thing. Luckily I left this thing for 2 weeks and I was good, I became social, started talking to everyone and even I stopped thinking bad about girls and also the ance in my Face vanished but now I again started to this thing, ance started to appear on face again and this ruined everythin AND ONE MORE THING, PLEASE DON'T TELL OTHERS EVEN UR FRIENDS THAT UR MASTURBATING I HAD BAD EXPERIENCE AFTER TELLING THAT IM MASTURBATING. And one more thing don't feel depressed. Please this should work. Please please please!!!
April 14 Someone said: hello friends i m rajv... I have started this bad hafffit since last three months . But i wanna to stop it any how because i hv to struggle in my life it is really destroying my life earlier i do it2_3times per day. I hv a feeling of tingling in my head . In legs.hands . I feel no strength in my qhole body . Please help me what i do . U dont believe that i masturbated during my board exam this year . What i do pla. Help me . I m innocent help me pleas
April 12 Someone said: I Am stopping it today I swear, never to do it again.
April 10 Someone said: hi friends, I av bin indulging myself in this such an evil act for quite a while now, 10years to be precised. it has made my life in totality a miserable life. it always make me c myself as nobody, irrelevant among friends and lack of self control, poor concentration ability, lack of memory, lack of interest in academic activities or anything that would make my life progress n the worst aspect of it, I'm spiritually dead. I av tried on so many occasions to stop it but to no avail. the advice that I would giv u, the reader of this post is that masturbation is highly destructive physically( it makes one loose their stamina and energy that are useful in performing task), psychologically, emotionally and spiritually the ealier u stop it the better unless u want to continue living a life of emptiness and no future.
April 10 Someone said: I'm 18 years old male and discovered masturbation at 13. I have been masturbating with an average intervals of two days. I tried to stop it by every means but couldn't. I'm facing minor side effects.I t has started messing my life.Believe me it is not healthy whoever says that its good is mad.Never ever try it.I t would ruin ur life.I hope to give it as soon as possible.
April 8 Someone said: Masturbation is hard to stop, the only thing is to pray and avoid porn movies and be up right ... I was once addicted to masturbation. But I came to realize am wasting my manhood and more so a disgrace.. I lost my confidence and my mind would think of pussies and those porn movies I promised my heart not and I will never.. Its a matter of making a choice...
April 8 Someone said: I am from India.i am vry energetic boy I started masturbating at the age of 12 nd I continued until nw.masturbation destroyed my life.i addicted to drugs to escape frm ths habit.bt i. Never quited it.plz stop masturbation it is evil in ths world.
April 6 Someone said: Praise the Lord for RADIO SAPIENTIA 95.3 FM FROM Nigerian my I n case was worst i have masturbated for complete 13 years now i tell you that i am as best as nothing now because of it's effect in me, shy,weak, guilt,suicidal thought,stabbing my self to death,muscle pain,urges for even children, worst is loss of memory,lack of concentration,poor initiative there are so many but i thank God for this radio station that referred me to this site i tell you it has come to an end forever i just pray God for Strength and willpower to stand against it forever friends pls pls stop for your own good please
April 10 Someone said: I'm 18 years old male and discovered masturbation at 13. I have been masturbating with an average intervals of two days. I tried to stop it by every means but couldn't. I'm facing minor side effects.I t has started messing my life.Believe me it is not healthy whoever says that its good is mad.Never ever try it.I t would ruin ur life.I hope to give it as soon as possible.
April 8 Someone said: Masturbation is hard to stop, the only thing is to pray and avoid porn movies and be up right ... I was once addicted to masturbation. But I came to realize am wasting my manhood and more so a disgrace.. I lost my confidence and my mind would think of pussies and those porn movies I promised my heart not and I will never.. Its a matter of making a choice...
April 8 Someone said: I am from India.i am vry energetic boy I started masturbating at the age of 12 nd I continued until nw.masturbation destroyed my life.i addicted to drugs to escape frm ths habit.bt i. Never quited it.plz stop masturbation it is evil in ths world.
April 6 Someone said: Praise the Lord for RADIO SAPIENTIA 95.3 FM FROM Nigerian my I n case was worst i have masturbated for complete 13 years now i tell you that i am as best as nothing now because of it's effect in me, shy,weak, guilt,suicidal thought,stabbing my self to death,muscle pain,urges for even children, worst is loss of memory,lack of concentration,poor initiative there are so many but i thank God for this radio station that referred me to this site i tell you it has come to an end forever i just pray God for Strength and willpower to stand against it forever friends pls pls stop for your own good please
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April 3 Someone said: I'm just a preteen here, but long time ago, I fell into pornography and masturbation.. For a long time. But being a Catholic, I seemed the Lord's help, and stopped. But a few months later, it's all happening again, and at first, I'm like "Yes!! I managed to do a week without it!" But then out of the blue it happens. This caused me depression a few years back. I can't have it again. I'm willing to do anything to change. I believe I am ready. I hope people out there will wish me luck and pray for me...
April 2 Someone said: I started Masturbation when I was 13, I am a Muslim and masturbation is its not allowed in my religion. I tried everything but failed to stop it. Now I masturbate once in two days. My performance retarded. Lost my skills and abilities. Grew thinner and lost energy. Now i am almost 16 and want to start my 16th year with just one goal "No masturbation". Found of lot of helping info on this website. May God help me all those suffering from this addiction. |
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March 28 Someone said: Ok So I'm heart broken because all of the side effects of masturbation are present in me. I'm a Muslim and in our religion it is Haram (Extremely hated and not allowed at all) But i've been addicted to it since 10 years. I always refused to believe any of the negative effects of masturbation but now it's all clear I have ruined my life. I hope that i can have enough power to get rid of it . starting from today I will try my level best to not do it. EVER.
March 16 Someone said: Masterbation is the worst thing that has happened to me. It is the best weapon to deatroy your enemy. It is so willpower killing that even a day before my final exam i have no desire to study despite knowing the fact that i am going to suffer. Even the truth is not able help me focus in my studies. My advice to every to every student is to stop masterbation asap or you will have your worst nightmares. Beacause of this habit i dont feel happy, sad or any emotions. I dont understand others even my own feelings . I pray to god to end this and want to start a new life.
March 15 Someone said: frndz am into this too but I pray to God to help me stop it mine is not too late
March 11: hey! i'm 17 years old man..& i have been started masturbation since 13 or 14 ..but it's unhealthy for me.. :( # Hair loss # difficulty in running & walking # memory loss # always feel tired # short body # i can't control myself # rashes # pain in bones & many more... friends i request you...don't masturbate..masturbation is a bad habit...! i can't run ..i am not studying .._lord! please save me from this addiction ... i can't do anything... :'(.
March 9 Someone said: the worst impact of masturbation is that you loose your mind and ''''self control''''''' and so you ''''can't stop this evil habit'''' and you lose all your capabilities.
March 7 Someone said: I am fed up of feeling weak, low energy, bad memory, dirty, lazy, anti social. I havd lost all my friends, cant work due to feeling so depressed and suicidal. Its a terrible secret habit I fight each night and each morning to control my urges.. my skin is bad, my body is thin, my eyes sunken and I look grey. I always have a headache and feel like im 50 but im only 30. Time to stop this habit. I try to turn to god but it doesnt last. I pray I will overcome this dirty sin. God help mr and you all. To feel clean and purified.
March 16 Someone said: Masterbation is the worst thing that has happened to me. It is the best weapon to deatroy your enemy. It is so willpower killing that even a day before my final exam i have no desire to study despite knowing the fact that i am going to suffer. Even the truth is not able help me focus in my studies. My advice to every to every student is to stop masterbation asap or you will have your worst nightmares. Beacause of this habit i dont feel happy, sad or any emotions. I dont understand others even my own feelings . I pray to god to end this and want to start a new life.
March 15 Someone said: frndz am into this too but I pray to God to help me stop it mine is not too late
March 11: hey! i'm 17 years old man..& i have been started masturbation since 13 or 14 ..but it's unhealthy for me.. :( # Hair loss # difficulty in running & walking # memory loss # always feel tired # short body # i can't control myself # rashes # pain in bones & many more... friends i request you...don't masturbate..masturbation is a bad habit...! i can't run ..i am not studying .._lord! please save me from this addiction ... i can't do anything... :'(.
March 9 Someone said: the worst impact of masturbation is that you loose your mind and ''''self control''''''' and so you ''''can't stop this evil habit'''' and you lose all your capabilities.
March 7 Someone said: I am fed up of feeling weak, low energy, bad memory, dirty, lazy, anti social. I havd lost all my friends, cant work due to feeling so depressed and suicidal. Its a terrible secret habit I fight each night and each morning to control my urges.. my skin is bad, my body is thin, my eyes sunken and I look grey. I always have a headache and feel like im 50 but im only 30. Time to stop this habit. I try to turn to god but it doesnt last. I pray I will overcome this dirty sin. God help mr and you all. To feel clean and purified.
February 26 Someone said: I'm 40 years old. I started masturbating when I was....I can't even remember, may be around 8. My stepped brother, who is 3 years older, taught me how to do it. He held my penis and did it every time for a few years. At the time, I was too young to know what was right/wrong. Until 12, we started asking each other to do it together every time we feel like doing it. When I turned 15, my older brother, again, introduced me to porn. Then we did it together till I was 19 that's when he moved away. Then I have been masturbating and watching porn alone since. He's gay now. I find that I get weak and fatigue only when I am over masturbating....like everyday,
February 25:Hello guys..iam 14 yers old i am not adult yet and i am masturbating since 4 yers even now i cant stop it ... When i discovered this website it helps me very much and the best thing to do to stop masturbating pray and ask good to help u and try to life in public environment and dont escape like a thief and looking for a place to masturbate ... U have time put a plane and try and dont stop trying .... Its a lose of life and family
February 21 Someone said: I startd this when I was just 12 n then I started to masturbate daily.I searched on internet n some mother fucker told me that itzz good for health and slowly slowly I got addicted to it.some plaza help he I just want to put a full stop to it .. sooo plzzz help
February 18: I was 12 when I started doing such a sinful act. I had struggled everyday. I love attending camping inorder to at least stop. But when I returned home... There my I do it again... I am searching sites on how to stop it. Yet I am tempted. I prayed earnestly and luckily God answered my prayers I am now free. Don;t loose hope. #5 years of sinful act. I am very grateful that I had stopped doing it! I am now 17 and no more freaking "nonsense" business with my Jr. =D
February 9 Someone said: Hi! Im 20 yo female, reading this has helped me know im not alone in this... and this can be something difficult to say so I thank this site! I remember when I started at 15, youre discovering those "places'' you get curious and thats how it was for me.. at that time I didnt know what my identity or sexuality was and I started watching porn.. started going to church and it "left" but once I stopped going for awhile it came back and I noticed i started feeling isolated, hated going outside thinking paranoid people could "sense" I had masturbated, and couldnt really express myself normally because I had this unhealthy relationship with myself... even to this day ive been battling this demon and like everyone has said we need someone to help us get through this. Please pray for me. I know now when I do it its because i cant deal with issues in my life alone and i feel depressed, anxious, and cant go without one day doing it or watching porn. Its a deep rooted crutch i use.. im trying to get back with god but its been a struggle.. its crazy, its ruining my life!! I pray God helps us, God bless you all.
February 3 Someone said: I started masturbating when I was of age 14. A sudden impulse of pleasant feeling made me continue this for 13 years. I am now 27. I used to be a brainy student. This disastrous habit has taken its toll. I have good grades but could have been even better. I am doing an average job but it could have been even better. I have stopped doing this sinful act for last one week and I believe it will continue and I will be able to restore what I have lost,
February 25:Hello guys..iam 14 yers old i am not adult yet and i am masturbating since 4 yers even now i cant stop it ... When i discovered this website it helps me very much and the best thing to do to stop masturbating pray and ask good to help u and try to life in public environment and dont escape like a thief and looking for a place to masturbate ... U have time put a plane and try and dont stop trying .... Its a lose of life and family
February 21 Someone said: I startd this when I was just 12 n then I started to masturbate daily.I searched on internet n some mother fucker told me that itzz good for health and slowly slowly I got addicted to it.some plaza help he I just want to put a full stop to it .. sooo plzzz help
February 18: I was 12 when I started doing such a sinful act. I had struggled everyday. I love attending camping inorder to at least stop. But when I returned home... There my I do it again... I am searching sites on how to stop it. Yet I am tempted. I prayed earnestly and luckily God answered my prayers I am now free. Don;t loose hope. #5 years of sinful act. I am very grateful that I had stopped doing it! I am now 17 and no more freaking "nonsense" business with my Jr. =D
February 9 Someone said: Hi! Im 20 yo female, reading this has helped me know im not alone in this... and this can be something difficult to say so I thank this site! I remember when I started at 15, youre discovering those "places'' you get curious and thats how it was for me.. at that time I didnt know what my identity or sexuality was and I started watching porn.. started going to church and it "left" but once I stopped going for awhile it came back and I noticed i started feeling isolated, hated going outside thinking paranoid people could "sense" I had masturbated, and couldnt really express myself normally because I had this unhealthy relationship with myself... even to this day ive been battling this demon and like everyone has said we need someone to help us get through this. Please pray for me. I know now when I do it its because i cant deal with issues in my life alone and i feel depressed, anxious, and cant go without one day doing it or watching porn. Its a deep rooted crutch i use.. im trying to get back with god but its been a struggle.. its crazy, its ruining my life!! I pray God helps us, God bless you all.
February 3 Someone said: I started masturbating when I was of age 14. A sudden impulse of pleasant feeling made me continue this for 13 years. I am now 27. I used to be a brainy student. This disastrous habit has taken its toll. I have good grades but could have been even better. I am doing an average job but it could have been even better. I have stopped doing this sinful act for last one week and I believe it will continue and I will be able to restore what I have lost,
January 30 Someone said: This habit is very bad.It robs the truth of life.I was a great student but practicing this habit made me failure.Be the reason of stress or loneliness it is a drug that will make addict. I want to be great in life and I will.So if we can form bad habits then we can remove it too.
January 30: hi guys. I'm from Nigeria in West Africa. i began masturbating at the age of 16, now i'm 21. Masturbation & porn has really destroyed me. I recently noticed my memory has begun to derail. I can't even remember something i read a day ago. Through out my 4 years in College i couldn't get a girlfriend as a result of my inability to approach women due to low -sex drive. I would be alone in my room & masturbate. I could masturbate up to 5 times in a day. It's very bad. Tried quitting many times but I always succumb to the urges. I wish to stop & it seems this the best time for me & maybe you reading this too to stop is now. Have to live my life to the fullest & begin to accomplish things. Masturbation has almost ruined me. Thanks for this site. I'm never masturbating again by the Grace of God. You too need to stop this self-destructing habit before it destroys you.
January 30: hi guys. I'm from Nigeria in West Africa. i began masturbating at the age of 16, now i'm 21. Masturbation & porn has really destroyed me. I recently noticed my memory has begun to derail. I can't even remember something i read a day ago. Through out my 4 years in College i couldn't get a girlfriend as a result of my inability to approach women due to low -sex drive. I would be alone in my room & masturbate. I could masturbate up to 5 times in a day. It's very bad. Tried quitting many times but I always succumb to the urges. I wish to stop & it seems this the best time for me & maybe you reading this too to stop is now. Have to live my life to the fullest & begin to accomplish things. Masturbation has almost ruined me. Thanks for this site. I'm never masturbating again by the Grace of God. You too need to stop this self-destructing habit before it destroys you.
January 26 Someone said: Hello everyone! ! I don't even know where to start from, but the in-thing is: masturbation is evil, weird, dangerous and a fast killer only second to a bullet. I am 24 now and i started masturbating at 20. Since then, my life has not been the same (though the word of God has given me hope ), i walk around with this lethal guilt ; i lust after any girl i see even after my sister/female cousins ; i peeped at girls fetching water in my compound, even at married women, and it goes on and on. I have tried several times in futility to stop this useless, wicked and evil act. I am tired of asking God for forgiveness. Nevertheless, lets not give up on ourselves for God is not through with us yet.
January 22 Someone said: i am 18 years old a male Muslim from Egypt I am in faculty of engineering. I started to do this thing in first year preparatory I had terrible years I lost my self confidence I felt weak with no friends I never accomplished any thing during this awful time l stopped many times maybe for 2 months but I couldn't continue during the time I stopped Never give up hope search for good friends not necessary to tell them about your problem pray and know that God will help you
January 22: When i was 12 i stared masturbating ... i was good enough in studys ..well im doing daily ..when i reach 9 i was felling so lazy . my body also so weak ... ..but iv tryed to stop masterbtng ..iv stooped masturbate for 14 days .i was felling so good and happy and laughing but when i was watching movie ...1 scene came and ... masterbatd ..sack ..know again trying to be well.... god bless u . pepol ..bye
January 22 Someone said: Hi, i'm 24 years old. I have been masturbating since I'm 12 years old. No one taught me how to masturbate. It started when I was touching myself and then the sperm came out. I was shocked and didn't know what to do so I asked my friend on the next day, they said it was natural and good. Then when I came back home, I started to masturbate myself again until it get hurt. Its doesn't took me long to get addicted. Slowly, bad effect are showing up and when I started pre-u study, I becaming less motived, lazy, no confidence, pretty much all the side effect mentioned above. Now, I am still jobless even after I got my degree 2 years ago. I feel ashamed and regret. I has abstained for 3 week now and I hope it will forever. I really wish I never started this wicked act and my advise to others is DON'T START MASTURBATION, IF YOU HAVE STARTED, STOP NOW. UNLESS YOU WANT TO REGRET FOR YOUR WHOLE LIFE.
January 20 Someone said: hi I'm a 15yr male I started masturbating at the age of 14 I have been masturbating for about a year now. This has been introduced to me by my friends but it should've been my responsibility to not try it. Since that day, I haven't stopped this act but knowing that there is a God up in Heaven I know that this act won't be in my life for long. I tried praying, it worked and God delivered me but because of my stubborn ways I went back to the same old life. I then felt something say to me that I must talk to my pastor because he is the only one I can trust. I told him he prayed for me and encourage me because he had the Same problem when he was younger. I ended up going back being stubborn again because I can't control my urges. I then now began to have sexual thoughts for my same sex. This wasn't like me so I knew that I have to take a stand for myself. I did what I can do best. Write about my feelings day by day in my Journal and keep it close to me everyday.....I haven't been able to finish my story because I accidentally submitted it. I am the 15yr male who started masturbating at the age of 14. Let me continue where I dropped off. I wrote in my JOURNAL every single day and kept it close to me no matter what. As simple as this may sound it has had a really bad impact on my life because of my religion. I find it disrespectful but because of my urges I am forced to continue. Because of my frequent JOURNAL entry I haven't done this act for days now. Of course I relapse but it only reminds me that FEAR IS JUST ANOTHER REASON TO TRY HARDER. I live by that philosophy and it really helped. I am proud of my growth and I'm glad to share my story to those out there who think that they could stop. I'm just 15 and if I can do it anybody can just have faith in God and stay strong.
January 20: Helo everybody am frm nigeria, do u want to hear real thing about masturbation? this habit is devil work and is not quikly easy to erase frm mind! Is ur determination and prayer also prayer wil not hold ur hand not to do it, is determination mater most, i went to many churches for deliverance but on getin home i wil stil do it! But wen i determine i stop it for ever and my body rcover everyday now, email me on-( ********************[email protected]) or cal me +23*****************8. I wil tel u how to stop it sucesfuly. D secrect is dat u can't continue do it with suceess in life. Beter stop it pls and pls.
January 19 Someone said: I am somebody, pls dis masturbation of a thing nt even a thing bt evil,i started it few month ago. Nd nw am stil doin it,I wnt 2 stop dis habit of mine, weneva i finish masturbate i feel sad bcos my conscience bears me witness, i hate this mastu...... bt i knw God wil cary me through cus so far i found dis website i knw have found peace in my life. I promise God nt to do it again nd again. SO HELP ME GOD!!!!!
January 17 Someone said: i have started this bad habit from when i was 12.i hate doing this bad act and i cant control it. this harmful act which made me very lazy and less inteligent changed my happy life and i dont have ability to stop it.i cant believe myself to do all the steps in this site.i have tried more times to stop it and even one time i stop it for 1 month but i was not able to stop completely.any one who wants to try it just for one time should not inter it.i need help.
January 14 Someone said: Hi i am from Colombia, south america, and i really want to share my history so nobody has to live this again. Some friends got me into pornography and somehow i started masturbating (this was at the age of 12). Kept doing it till today. It has changed my entire person. I find it difficult to be myself, to talk to a girl and i even lack from friendships, and those are only mental consequences; my face has turned into an acne minefield, it's difficult to communicate with any other person and being rejected a couple of times had involved me more into this poisonous activity. Now at the age of 16 its time to say stop, im insanely thankful to god and to every one involved in this website team (including self-story writers) because i've been told to stop in the perfect time. Please, doesnt matter how old you are, masturbation will ruin your entire life, and its something that surely you will be regretting of. Do it for yourself, or at least to be proud of saying: "ive stopped masturbating". I would love to keep writing but i would never end, i want to close this with this quote. "Winners are not those who never fall, winners are those who fall and stand up again." - Nelson Mandela
January 11: Please guys if u have a career a dream which u have to succeed , then plz stop this shit masturbation !! It has ruined my studies ! That is why I get low marks ! My strong and sharp memory is all gone . I hate this f***ing porn !!!!!!! I get very depressed wen I even think about it ! I have pimples grown all over my face !!!! Please please please avoid masturbation and shit porn !! I have decided to quit it !!! And I swear myself for it !!! Please pray for me !!!!! Avoid it and stop thinking !!! It has done a major impact on the way of thinking !! Quit otherwise it will ruin ur entire life !!! U will not go towards ur goals !!! It is only onetime pleasurement but entire life upsetment !!!!!!! Plzz pray for me !
January 10: Same problem is with me...from masturbation... 1-knee pain 2-face condition is poor 3-Hair losd 4-i can't focus on my study 5- shot hight 6-i can't run 7-sleep to long 8-every time tired 9-thin penis 10-poor condition of my whole body... i can't work..i can't study..i can't learn..i can't nothing...please give me solution i want to overcome ..please help me..
January 7 Someone said: Hi friends I started masturbating at the age of 15. Now I am 20. It ruined my life. I lost jobs because of this bad habit. I tried to stop it but I failed many times. I make me feel lazy, shy, low self esteem, low confidence. This devil has made me thin and skinny. I am suffering from lower back problem and I am haVing number of health problems. But now I want to overcome this bad habit.
January 5 Someone said: i am a 14 year old boy. I started masturbating when I was 12 .Till now I can't stop masturbation and watching porn. Some moments before writing this I was watching 'family sex pictures' on my phone. I don't know how to stop this. I want to die . Please help me stop this . Please
December 30: Im 17 years old I hav been masturbating since 14 years....im very weak so please atp mastubating it s very dangerous to our body
December 27: la masturbation est mauvaise , suis en couple ca fait 8 mois ;mon compagnon a 50 ans , il ya trois mos que je viens de decouvrir qu il se masturbe plusieurs fois la nuit ; manque d envie sexuelle avec mois , toute la nuit soit sa main soit la couverture sur son zizi , une autre main sur son sein ;il se bat et change des positions comme un fou ,au salon sa main toujous sur son zizi , a la toilette memement , je lui ai reprocher mais il ne reconnait pas et continie a me mentir , je vis la misere au lit manque de sommeil quant je le vois a cet etat ,je ne sais pas comment avoir un enfant ,la masturbation le rend fou , et il m ignore completement au lit , insensible sans tendresse ; il se fait toute seul le plaisir jusqu au matin ; je desteste l infidelité et le divorce que dois je faire devant cet acte ensuite il perd l erection ejaculation précose s il a rapport sexuelle ; mal au dod ; deux fois opéeation de la tendinite au bras et au pied , souvent ses oreilles se bouchent , beaucoup de bouton dans son corps , des douleurs musculaires son zizi est devenu trop court pzndant l erection il n arrive jamais a me satisfaire , a cote mais sa main entrain de se frotter le sein , quel obssession ; et il n a aucun desir d arretter malgrer toute les incovenients et ne se soucie jamais de moi , voila a tout ceux qui disent que la masturbation est normal,c est la vie ou la mort du couple et de son corps ,? arreter la masturbation
December 23 Someone said: Hi guys I'm from South Africa, porn and masturbation has destroyed me. I can't: concentrate I have a weak memory Low self esteem Living with guilt The list goes on.I'm 19 and have been doing it for the past year. Today 23/12/2014 I took the oath to stop. Please I need a friend to get me through, email me at ************@gmail.com
December 23 Someone said: Hi Want I suffered from masturbation 1 my percentage in studies crashed from 77-45% 2 extremely poor memory 3.semen thinness 4.erection problems 5.hair loss n hair thinness so its upto if u want these above problems or not .....I suffered them I dont want u to suffer it
January 22 Someone said: i am 18 years old a male Muslim from Egypt I am in faculty of engineering. I started to do this thing in first year preparatory I had terrible years I lost my self confidence I felt weak with no friends I never accomplished any thing during this awful time l stopped many times maybe for 2 months but I couldn't continue during the time I stopped Never give up hope search for good friends not necessary to tell them about your problem pray and know that God will help you
January 22: When i was 12 i stared masturbating ... i was good enough in studys ..well im doing daily ..when i reach 9 i was felling so lazy . my body also so weak ... ..but iv tryed to stop masterbtng ..iv stooped masturbate for 14 days .i was felling so good and happy and laughing but when i was watching movie ...1 scene came and ... masterbatd ..sack ..know again trying to be well.... god bless u . pepol ..bye
January 22 Someone said: Hi, i'm 24 years old. I have been masturbating since I'm 12 years old. No one taught me how to masturbate. It started when I was touching myself and then the sperm came out. I was shocked and didn't know what to do so I asked my friend on the next day, they said it was natural and good. Then when I came back home, I started to masturbate myself again until it get hurt. Its doesn't took me long to get addicted. Slowly, bad effect are showing up and when I started pre-u study, I becaming less motived, lazy, no confidence, pretty much all the side effect mentioned above. Now, I am still jobless even after I got my degree 2 years ago. I feel ashamed and regret. I has abstained for 3 week now and I hope it will forever. I really wish I never started this wicked act and my advise to others is DON'T START MASTURBATION, IF YOU HAVE STARTED, STOP NOW. UNLESS YOU WANT TO REGRET FOR YOUR WHOLE LIFE.
January 20 Someone said: hi I'm a 15yr male I started masturbating at the age of 14 I have been masturbating for about a year now. This has been introduced to me by my friends but it should've been my responsibility to not try it. Since that day, I haven't stopped this act but knowing that there is a God up in Heaven I know that this act won't be in my life for long. I tried praying, it worked and God delivered me but because of my stubborn ways I went back to the same old life. I then felt something say to me that I must talk to my pastor because he is the only one I can trust. I told him he prayed for me and encourage me because he had the Same problem when he was younger. I ended up going back being stubborn again because I can't control my urges. I then now began to have sexual thoughts for my same sex. This wasn't like me so I knew that I have to take a stand for myself. I did what I can do best. Write about my feelings day by day in my Journal and keep it close to me everyday.....I haven't been able to finish my story because I accidentally submitted it. I am the 15yr male who started masturbating at the age of 14. Let me continue where I dropped off. I wrote in my JOURNAL every single day and kept it close to me no matter what. As simple as this may sound it has had a really bad impact on my life because of my religion. I find it disrespectful but because of my urges I am forced to continue. Because of my frequent JOURNAL entry I haven't done this act for days now. Of course I relapse but it only reminds me that FEAR IS JUST ANOTHER REASON TO TRY HARDER. I live by that philosophy and it really helped. I am proud of my growth and I'm glad to share my story to those out there who think that they could stop. I'm just 15 and if I can do it anybody can just have faith in God and stay strong.
January 20: Helo everybody am frm nigeria, do u want to hear real thing about masturbation? this habit is devil work and is not quikly easy to erase frm mind! Is ur determination and prayer also prayer wil not hold ur hand not to do it, is determination mater most, i went to many churches for deliverance but on getin home i wil stil do it! But wen i determine i stop it for ever and my body rcover everyday now, email me on-( ********************[email protected]) or cal me +23*****************8. I wil tel u how to stop it sucesfuly. D secrect is dat u can't continue do it with suceess in life. Beter stop it pls and pls.
January 19 Someone said: I am somebody, pls dis masturbation of a thing nt even a thing bt evil,i started it few month ago. Nd nw am stil doin it,I wnt 2 stop dis habit of mine, weneva i finish masturbate i feel sad bcos my conscience bears me witness, i hate this mastu...... bt i knw God wil cary me through cus so far i found dis website i knw have found peace in my life. I promise God nt to do it again nd again. SO HELP ME GOD!!!!!
January 17 Someone said: i have started this bad habit from when i was 12.i hate doing this bad act and i cant control it. this harmful act which made me very lazy and less inteligent changed my happy life and i dont have ability to stop it.i cant believe myself to do all the steps in this site.i have tried more times to stop it and even one time i stop it for 1 month but i was not able to stop completely.any one who wants to try it just for one time should not inter it.i need help.
January 14 Someone said: Hi i am from Colombia, south america, and i really want to share my history so nobody has to live this again. Some friends got me into pornography and somehow i started masturbating (this was at the age of 12). Kept doing it till today. It has changed my entire person. I find it difficult to be myself, to talk to a girl and i even lack from friendships, and those are only mental consequences; my face has turned into an acne minefield, it's difficult to communicate with any other person and being rejected a couple of times had involved me more into this poisonous activity. Now at the age of 16 its time to say stop, im insanely thankful to god and to every one involved in this website team (including self-story writers) because i've been told to stop in the perfect time. Please, doesnt matter how old you are, masturbation will ruin your entire life, and its something that surely you will be regretting of. Do it for yourself, or at least to be proud of saying: "ive stopped masturbating". I would love to keep writing but i would never end, i want to close this with this quote. "Winners are not those who never fall, winners are those who fall and stand up again." - Nelson Mandela
January 11: Please guys if u have a career a dream which u have to succeed , then plz stop this shit masturbation !! It has ruined my studies ! That is why I get low marks ! My strong and sharp memory is all gone . I hate this f***ing porn !!!!!!! I get very depressed wen I even think about it ! I have pimples grown all over my face !!!! Please please please avoid masturbation and shit porn !! I have decided to quit it !!! And I swear myself for it !!! Please pray for me !!!!! Avoid it and stop thinking !!! It has done a major impact on the way of thinking !! Quit otherwise it will ruin ur entire life !!! U will not go towards ur goals !!! It is only onetime pleasurement but entire life upsetment !!!!!!! Plzz pray for me !
January 10: Same problem is with me...from masturbation... 1-knee pain 2-face condition is poor 3-Hair losd 4-i can't focus on my study 5- shot hight 6-i can't run 7-sleep to long 8-every time tired 9-thin penis 10-poor condition of my whole body... i can't work..i can't study..i can't learn..i can't nothing...please give me solution i want to overcome ..please help me..
January 7 Someone said: Hi friends I started masturbating at the age of 15. Now I am 20. It ruined my life. I lost jobs because of this bad habit. I tried to stop it but I failed many times. I make me feel lazy, shy, low self esteem, low confidence. This devil has made me thin and skinny. I am suffering from lower back problem and I am haVing number of health problems. But now I want to overcome this bad habit.
January 5 Someone said: i am a 14 year old boy. I started masturbating when I was 12 .Till now I can't stop masturbation and watching porn. Some moments before writing this I was watching 'family sex pictures' on my phone. I don't know how to stop this. I want to die . Please help me stop this . Please
December 30: Im 17 years old I hav been masturbating since 14 years....im very weak so please atp mastubating it s very dangerous to our body
December 27: la masturbation est mauvaise , suis en couple ca fait 8 mois ;mon compagnon a 50 ans , il ya trois mos que je viens de decouvrir qu il se masturbe plusieurs fois la nuit ; manque d envie sexuelle avec mois , toute la nuit soit sa main soit la couverture sur son zizi , une autre main sur son sein ;il se bat et change des positions comme un fou ,au salon sa main toujous sur son zizi , a la toilette memement , je lui ai reprocher mais il ne reconnait pas et continie a me mentir , je vis la misere au lit manque de sommeil quant je le vois a cet etat ,je ne sais pas comment avoir un enfant ,la masturbation le rend fou , et il m ignore completement au lit , insensible sans tendresse ; il se fait toute seul le plaisir jusqu au matin ; je desteste l infidelité et le divorce que dois je faire devant cet acte ensuite il perd l erection ejaculation précose s il a rapport sexuelle ; mal au dod ; deux fois opéeation de la tendinite au bras et au pied , souvent ses oreilles se bouchent , beaucoup de bouton dans son corps , des douleurs musculaires son zizi est devenu trop court pzndant l erection il n arrive jamais a me satisfaire , a cote mais sa main entrain de se frotter le sein , quel obssession ; et il n a aucun desir d arretter malgrer toute les incovenients et ne se soucie jamais de moi , voila a tout ceux qui disent que la masturbation est normal,c est la vie ou la mort du couple et de son corps ,? arreter la masturbation
December 23 Someone said: Hi guys I'm from South Africa, porn and masturbation has destroyed me. I can't: concentrate I have a weak memory Low self esteem Living with guilt The list goes on.I'm 19 and have been doing it for the past year. Today 23/12/2014 I took the oath to stop. Please I need a friend to get me through, email me at ************@gmail.com
December 23 Someone said: Hi Want I suffered from masturbation 1 my percentage in studies crashed from 77-45% 2 extremely poor memory 3.semen thinness 4.erection problems 5.hair loss n hair thinness so its upto if u want these above problems or not .....I suffered them I dont want u to suffer it
December 12 Someone said: I was a brilliant in math and physics but I have destroyed all of science and it made me a nothing, I hope god help me,I like to be similar to my past days, It takes a lot of energy a lot of time a lot of seconds and a lot of years , I have lost a lot of days and its not repairable. I just wish god help me.
December 11 Someone said: I wish I could stop masturbation its indeed ruins a mans life I am 25. was introduced to it by my uncle. when he told me its makes u feel the proof of being a man
December 11 Someone said: When first began to masturbate it felt really good but now I masturbate because I am compelled to do so. Masturbation has control over my life. Every time I finish masturbating I become angry and depressed. I have thoughts of suicide always. I wish I never started this habit.
December 4 Someone said: I'm so addicted to masturbating its keep on comming into my mind and repeats ohh im soo addicted, it ruined my life,destroyed my face with pimples and destroyed my body moisture level and resulted in dryness and itch. i have tried every every lessons to erase it from my mind im addicted to porn and when i watch it it will lead me to masturbation im still trying to stop it from coming in to my mind and making me to do it again help me! with some trick
November 22 Someone said: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life To Its Entirety.. I Used To Be An Exceptionally Brilliant Lad Until Masturbation Paved The Way For The Devil Into My Life.Masturbation Does More Than Make One Dull..My Memory Is No Longer Retentive,Hence I'm Roused To A Phobia About Failure..Seclusion Inarguably Accounts For Masturbation.. Hope We Haven't Forgotten That An Idle Mind Is The Devil's Workshop?....Let's Strive Unfailingly To Conquer The Habit Of Masturbation By Being Busy And Keeping Away From Factors That Would Tempt Us Into It...
November 20 Someone said: The devil goes around like a roaring lion seeking for whom to destroy,porn and masturbation is the devil!!!!!
November 19 Someone said: . I started this sinful act at about 13 and now I'm 21. It started with internet, when I had access to phone. I would download and watch naked women pictures especially ***********, , it felt so good. Since then, I've been frequent with it. I now watch porn like my life depends on it followed by the act of masturbating while viewing the videos. The bad feeling is that I become so angry with myself and I will delete the videos and swear never to do it again, only to go back to it anytime . it ruined my self confidence. I was the must intelligent boy in my class, but now, I struggle to make good grades. best in sports, especially football, cos in junior class 2, I feel shy in front of girls, but I always win this one cos I keep my shoulder high as a man. I don't even like meeting people especially new people cos i won't have the boldness to talk with them. I force myself to do things that I'm supposed to. I wanna stop real bad, I notice its killing me as day goes on. its not easy cos if it was, I would have stopped.
December 11 Someone said: I wish I could stop masturbation its indeed ruins a mans life I am 25. was introduced to it by my uncle. when he told me its makes u feel the proof of being a man
December 11 Someone said: When first began to masturbate it felt really good but now I masturbate because I am compelled to do so. Masturbation has control over my life. Every time I finish masturbating I become angry and depressed. I have thoughts of suicide always. I wish I never started this habit.
December 4 Someone said: I'm so addicted to masturbating its keep on comming into my mind and repeats ohh im soo addicted, it ruined my life,destroyed my face with pimples and destroyed my body moisture level and resulted in dryness and itch. i have tried every every lessons to erase it from my mind im addicted to porn and when i watch it it will lead me to masturbation im still trying to stop it from coming in to my mind and making me to do it again help me! with some trick
November 22 Someone said: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life To Its Entirety.. I Used To Be An Exceptionally Brilliant Lad Until Masturbation Paved The Way For The Devil Into My Life.Masturbation Does More Than Make One Dull..My Memory Is No Longer Retentive,Hence I'm Roused To A Phobia About Failure..Seclusion Inarguably Accounts For Masturbation.. Hope We Haven't Forgotten That An Idle Mind Is The Devil's Workshop?....Let's Strive Unfailingly To Conquer The Habit Of Masturbation By Being Busy And Keeping Away From Factors That Would Tempt Us Into It...
November 20 Someone said: The devil goes around like a roaring lion seeking for whom to destroy,porn and masturbation is the devil!!!!!
November 19 Someone said: . I started this sinful act at about 13 and now I'm 21. It started with internet, when I had access to phone. I would download and watch naked women pictures especially ***********, , it felt so good. Since then, I've been frequent with it. I now watch porn like my life depends on it followed by the act of masturbating while viewing the videos. The bad feeling is that I become so angry with myself and I will delete the videos and swear never to do it again, only to go back to it anytime . it ruined my self confidence. I was the must intelligent boy in my class, but now, I struggle to make good grades. best in sports, especially football, cos in junior class 2, I feel shy in front of girls, but I always win this one cos I keep my shoulder high as a man. I don't even like meeting people especially new people cos i won't have the boldness to talk with them. I force myself to do things that I'm supposed to. I wanna stop real bad, I notice its killing me as day goes on. its not easy cos if it was, I would have stopped.
November 12 Someone said: I started at 11 and remembered before i started doing it i was happy after i started i was sad
November 8 Someone said: I am 23 yrs. I started watching porn at about 16 yrs and began mastubating when I was 20 yrs old. I am leaving in a foreign country I have tried to stop over the last 2 yrs but I can't. the most I did was 21 days without it, the tough thing about it is that I am a med student and I know everything about the effects but I just can't stop. Some one please reach out and help me get out of this ditch asap!!
November 7 Someone said: Marry a girl as soon as u can.. Dont worry abt expenses n all that. Just start a beautiful healthy married life. And please please i request the whole world that make marriage easy in the society.. Not every couple can spend so much money on having a marriage ceremonies. Help each other to have a married life.. As marriage are getting expensive in our society so does the masturbation increasing. Parents also educate their children and help them to start a married life.. Sex with ur wife is natural, healthy and full of pleasure. But masturbation is not natural, un healthy and pain-pleasure act. Sexual desires are natural but not every mean is natural to achieve that. The age in which we are living is full of lust ful things. How one can control himself when watching movies, dramas, songs, dance, advertisements, hordings, girls with Short dresses, clubs, dance bars, cinemas etc At last one has to fall in such bad habit when there is no wife to do sex wirh her. Elder people (parents, uncles, aunties, elder brothers sisters) plz do not shy and aware ur juniors at the right time at right place and in the right way. Otherwise ur closed one will be in trouble and that trouble can make him hollow from inside. As sexual desires are natural n healthy, why we think about stopping masturbation(we should) but why not to think about marriage first.. Nothing so difficult in married life. It depends on us to lead a happy or stress ful maried life. Dont think so much about expenses. Kings' needs are also not fulfilled. Just live a happy life. Happiness lies in naturallity and foreplay, sex n love with ur partner (only wife) is natural, healthy and full of pleasure. Whereas any other mean (masturbation, girl friends, homosex lesbian or gay, mating with animals, visual romance etc) are all unnatural, have a number of negative effects on our health and simply not good for us. Educate, dont masturbate
November 5 Someone said: Wow, wow, I can't believe I failed again. I didn't masturbate for two months now and just did it thinking of hentai!!! I sighed and got so guilty afterwards. What should I do now? Should I keep starting over and over again? I really want to have children someday, I want my sperm to be very strong. My body is kind of fragile, negative thoughts, etc. To the makers of this site and to others, how can I stop thinking porn/hentai when I go to sleep on my bed? I only pray to God and must do something about this.
November 8 Someone said: I am 23 yrs. I started watching porn at about 16 yrs and began mastubating when I was 20 yrs old. I am leaving in a foreign country I have tried to stop over the last 2 yrs but I can't. the most I did was 21 days without it, the tough thing about it is that I am a med student and I know everything about the effects but I just can't stop. Some one please reach out and help me get out of this ditch asap!!
November 7 Someone said: Marry a girl as soon as u can.. Dont worry abt expenses n all that. Just start a beautiful healthy married life. And please please i request the whole world that make marriage easy in the society.. Not every couple can spend so much money on having a marriage ceremonies. Help each other to have a married life.. As marriage are getting expensive in our society so does the masturbation increasing. Parents also educate their children and help them to start a married life.. Sex with ur wife is natural, healthy and full of pleasure. But masturbation is not natural, un healthy and pain-pleasure act. Sexual desires are natural but not every mean is natural to achieve that. The age in which we are living is full of lust ful things. How one can control himself when watching movies, dramas, songs, dance, advertisements, hordings, girls with Short dresses, clubs, dance bars, cinemas etc At last one has to fall in such bad habit when there is no wife to do sex wirh her. Elder people (parents, uncles, aunties, elder brothers sisters) plz do not shy and aware ur juniors at the right time at right place and in the right way. Otherwise ur closed one will be in trouble and that trouble can make him hollow from inside. As sexual desires are natural n healthy, why we think about stopping masturbation(we should) but why not to think about marriage first.. Nothing so difficult in married life. It depends on us to lead a happy or stress ful maried life. Dont think so much about expenses. Kings' needs are also not fulfilled. Just live a happy life. Happiness lies in naturallity and foreplay, sex n love with ur partner (only wife) is natural, healthy and full of pleasure. Whereas any other mean (masturbation, girl friends, homosex lesbian or gay, mating with animals, visual romance etc) are all unnatural, have a number of negative effects on our health and simply not good for us. Educate, dont masturbate
November 5 Someone said: Wow, wow, I can't believe I failed again. I didn't masturbate for two months now and just did it thinking of hentai!!! I sighed and got so guilty afterwards. What should I do now? Should I keep starting over and over again? I really want to have children someday, I want my sperm to be very strong. My body is kind of fragile, negative thoughts, etc. To the makers of this site and to others, how can I stop thinking porn/hentai when I go to sleep on my bed? I only pray to God and must do something about this.
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October 30 Someone said: my mind is very fast and smart . but this habit totaly ruined my life .
and i keep think about it and in few day i will suicide sure. if any
body can help me plz help my email. (email removed)
October 26 Someone said: Hi I am ------------------ from India and 12. I was very attractive and many girls used to love me but since I have started watching porn in 2013 I was shattered. Teachers hated me and and girls found me sick. I have stopped porn completely but stuck on masturbation. Please someone help me I have read your stories and I am scared to death. |
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October 25 Someone said: It is not good, i have done this for over 35 years, By the grace of God Almighty i will stop now and never to repeat it. The only side effect i have noticed is lack of concentration, memory lost and impaired vision. I wish i never started it at all.
October 13 Someone said: I was addicted to this act when I was just 13 yrs. Im 29 today. I look so miserable with jobless life.stuttering problem. Weak erection. Pimples on back . Immediate ejaculation. Lustful thoughts. Psychological problems. Defeated feeling. Self piting ,depressed,looking on woman's boobs rather than face giving an impression that im cheaply perverted. Born failure , zero religious , uncontrollable urge to masturbation, no will to get a girl, nervousness and numbness , marriage life doubtful ..so many other hell like things . But Jesus can help us if we can surrender ourselves. Yes we can folks. He can even rise the dead we are here in this world with a purpose .lets seek the lord please do not let it encourage you that masturbation is ok and it has no harm it is form of addiction. very very addictive and harmful . Cause I am one of its victim so consider my example thank you
October 12 Someone said: It feels like a suicide but dont have dare to die. One thing I ever regret in my life is MASTURBATION. By the way I'm 24, started it at 18. I was clever boy and happy and I am frustrated. It is just matter of 2 secs unsatisfied joy. I don't how to stop this. God, please give my life back. I really like to apologize my cousins my brother my friend and I don't have dare as I said. I hope I would be happy one day and I will never put my hands under. Hope my experience is useful for at least one human being. Have a nice life.
October 12 Someone said: It feels like a suicide but dont have dare to die. One thing I ever regret in my life is MASTURBATION. By the way I'm 24, started it at 18. I was clever boy and happy and I am frustrated. It is just matter of 2 secs unsatisfied joy. I don't how to stop this. God, please give my life back. I really like to apologize my cousins my brother my friend and I don't have dare as I said. I hope I would be happy one day and I will never put my hands under. Hope my experience is useful for at least one human being. Have a nice life.
October 3 Someone said: Masturbation is very danger in life.it is more danger than tobacco and alcohol.it ends ur career and life. u cannot develop in life ur life will decline.it is life time poison very difficult to stop. Masturbation started from 13tb age .......when I started it ... it feels to stop ....any time if thr is no ine at home I started masturbation .......I m nw 20 year old.....I wanna leave this habit ......the habit creates lot n lots problem like.....feels for masturbation any time ...mentally harassment. .....n after doing it... Feels like y I did this all....evry time it feels........n skin stretches.....n become dull n stamina lowers... Many more problems takes inside our body....so it better I stop it ....leave a pure life
October 2 Someone said: If Masturbation was a human I would strangle it to death. It started out when I was young and it felt so good but the longer I have this habit the worse I feel. I wish I never started this habit. Sometimes I even wish I was not alive. I feel like such a slave and I don't know where to go to find help. Masturbation is like a cancer that eats away at your soul and makes you feel hollow and empty inside.
September 28 Someone said: Masturbation is a silent killer...my ruined life is proof
September 19 Someone said: I'm a Nigerian. I wasn't taught how to masturbate; now I need d very best expert teacher to teach me how to stop. B4 I started, I was d best in class, I had a very high retentive memory. Physically fit, sharp n very active. I started masturbating wen I was 12, now still struggling at d age of 24. B4 any question was been asked, d answers were already coming out of my mouth, but now, I struggle 2 recall even what I knew 2minutes ago. I av dis chest pain, constant headache, partial stammering of d tongue, unwilling attitude 2 mingle with friends, eye pain, bald head, weakness, slimness , loss of self confidence, and difficulty 2 urinate. My life is a mess. I stand 2 say dis 2 u all. Like Daniel, I will neva eat slaves food again. If I perish I perish. No more masturbation till I die!!! D best way 2 stop is by constantly checking on dis page, n following all d principles in stopping it as its been told. Dere r beta n happier lives up here than living like a monster in the dark.no more fluke stories of masturbation benefit. I stand in d gap 2 say, Masturbation is a silent future killer.
September 15 Someone said: Hi friends .. Masturbation ruined my teenage.. I started masturbation when I was in 8th grade. Every time I use to do it ,something bad used to happen with me the whole day. Once I didn't masturbate and I find that day to be the happiest day of my life. Guys stop it. It ruies u. U will see that everything happens in your way .
October 2 Someone said: If Masturbation was a human I would strangle it to death. It started out when I was young and it felt so good but the longer I have this habit the worse I feel. I wish I never started this habit. Sometimes I even wish I was not alive. I feel like such a slave and I don't know where to go to find help. Masturbation is like a cancer that eats away at your soul and makes you feel hollow and empty inside.
September 28 Someone said: Masturbation is a silent killer...my ruined life is proof
September 19 Someone said: I'm a Nigerian. I wasn't taught how to masturbate; now I need d very best expert teacher to teach me how to stop. B4 I started, I was d best in class, I had a very high retentive memory. Physically fit, sharp n very active. I started masturbating wen I was 12, now still struggling at d age of 24. B4 any question was been asked, d answers were already coming out of my mouth, but now, I struggle 2 recall even what I knew 2minutes ago. I av dis chest pain, constant headache, partial stammering of d tongue, unwilling attitude 2 mingle with friends, eye pain, bald head, weakness, slimness , loss of self confidence, and difficulty 2 urinate. My life is a mess. I stand 2 say dis 2 u all. Like Daniel, I will neva eat slaves food again. If I perish I perish. No more masturbation till I die!!! D best way 2 stop is by constantly checking on dis page, n following all d principles in stopping it as its been told. Dere r beta n happier lives up here than living like a monster in the dark.no more fluke stories of masturbation benefit. I stand in d gap 2 say, Masturbation is a silent future killer.
September 15 Someone said: Hi friends .. Masturbation ruined my teenage.. I started masturbation when I was in 8th grade. Every time I use to do it ,something bad used to happen with me the whole day. Once I didn't masturbate and I find that day to be the happiest day of my life. Guys stop it. It ruies u. U will see that everything happens in your way .
September 13 Someone said: I started masturbating at age of 14 i was making me feel good but later i began to dp it every single minute when i am alone also while doing studies which ruined my life and grades. i cant stop thinking about sex even during lectures ar school which degraded my concentration and memory .i was one of the topper at school but today i even fail at some subject .Masturbation was the biggest mistake of my life And sorry for my awful english
September 13 Someone said: Firstl it was enjoyable but now i don't get any pleasure but it became a habit. It has changed from a positive and "fun" habit to a negative and destructive one. Now I hate myself every time I do it.
September 11 Someone said: please. I do not believe in god but please pray for me. i'll believe god if I able to stop within these year..
August 31 Someone said: Hello, I agreed with everybody here that its dangerous. I'm still currently going through some health problems and OCD is the biggest of them all. Masturbation has destroyed my life a lot and I do hear that masturbation is normal from my doctors and counselors. I'm glad that this website is given to us and is and will others in life. Jesus can help us deal with this and other problems we face in our lives!!! I'm glad this site provided a lot of scientific data and other resources to help us.
September 13 Someone said: Firstl it was enjoyable but now i don't get any pleasure but it became a habit. It has changed from a positive and "fun" habit to a negative and destructive one. Now I hate myself every time I do it.
September 11 Someone said: please. I do not believe in god but please pray for me. i'll believe god if I able to stop within these year..
August 31 Someone said: Hello, I agreed with everybody here that its dangerous. I'm still currently going through some health problems and OCD is the biggest of them all. Masturbation has destroyed my life a lot and I do hear that masturbation is normal from my doctors and counselors. I'm glad that this website is given to us and is and will others in life. Jesus can help us deal with this and other problems we face in our lives!!! I'm glad this site provided a lot of scientific data and other resources to help us.
August 25 Someone said: I Can't believe I'm saying any of this bUT I'm 12 and ever since I was little(like4)I have masturbated I never knew it was masturbating until a few years ago .I hate my self for it know I just feel like none of my friends do it or my siblings or parents so I have never talked about. At about 9 I found porn this just make me hate my self even more I want to stop so bad at night I cry because part of me feels like God hates me for it and that scares me. I try really hard to stop but it is like a drug I tell my self no don't do it and my mind thinks well is it really that bad and then I get pulled in to it. Plus when I'm done I feel really bad.I just wish I could stop please someone help me
August 24 Someone said: After i masturbate i feel guilty and weak then i don't feel like doing anything and that's what i did for one full year and failed... masturbation causes depression, you loose your brain power after masturbation i cant study i feel everybody hates me i feel like m lonely ... I had even health problems with it like back pain and then boils which are worst... masturbation is like a curse... i don't know why people say its healthy and good i say that's the worst thing and it will never give you success..
August 23 Someone said: Guys I am 27 years old from Pakistan. I started masturbation when I was 13 then it became an addiction. at this age I feel it's really bad habit and it really destroy ur body it make u weak.
August 22 Someone said: Hey guys, this addiction is very sad. i am very talented person with great ideas but i fail even to start a single thing out of the ideas that i have. i had stopped masturbating but lately it seems like i am starting again, i must say its nice but the after effects are sad. Time gets wasted. u know i am born again, for the past three weeks i have not been praying because i feel like o have failed God and myself, due to that fact, i do it even more than before. A lot of money has been wasted because i only get intrigued by internet porn...... Please help, i started the habit in 2002 i was 17, so u can just imagine how old i am now......
August 22 Someone said: what i'm saying is really true, i started masturbating at the age of 13 now i'm 23. I'm a strong person with strong athletic body and very intelligent student in education. But these are all before masturbating. After i got this habit everything has changed. First of all my concentration on studies became very low. Then i got noticed that my body is changed. Tightened muscles gets loosened. My bone density is very low now. If i do any small work means my body gets tired. I cant concentrate on my studies because the vital force to speed up my mind became very low due to masturbation, so that my teacher scolded me and my parents also scolded me. But i cant study well. I'm very shy to face people. But before masturbation I'm the one who guided everyone. Now my age is 23. I lost everything in my life. I had many dreams in my small age to become a great personality. But now I'm waste. A Shit, a piece of crap. My body became very lean. My strength gone. I lost confident in my life. I feel shame to face everyone. No friends to me. I struggled very much to complete my bachelors degree. But no job right now. Because i lost confident to search job. Now I'm living in a hell. Now i dont know how to live happily like others. How to speak confidently like others. Everything i lost. My precious memory, my health, my life everything lost. Only my body is living in this world. Be carefull everybody. Some peoples says that masturbation is healthy and it relieves stress. Dont believe that. It reduces stress when it is done. But after that your strength become very low. This really happened to my life. My life gone. But u people should be very carefull. The 20 years saving of semen will save you for next 40 years by the the way of satisfying your wife and do the common work without any tiredness. Thats what our body is made up of. If we wasted this precious semen unnaturally. Everything gets spoiled.
August 14 Someone said: hmmmm I am seriously addicted to this very irrittate and sinful habit ever since. I tried my possible best to terminate it but no avail even I fasted and pray BT prove abortive Ooga oo pls my pple how can I abstain pls help me oooo
August 12 Someone said: what i tell,it ruins my 11,12 n i still masturbate like an idiot
August 6 Someone said: I wanna stop the addiction of masturbation please help me anyone i am from india I am 18 yrs old and i was doing,this when i was 15and a1/2
August 3 Someone said: I need help.this masturbation of a thing has nw gone to the extent dat whenever I do it I am ashamed.besides am 31yrs old now,how can I stop this demonic act and I also hope its never too late?least I forge,I av bn masturbating since when I was like 12 if I could remember vividly.
July 28 Someone said; No more!!!!! I am fed up of it. It has ruined my personality, memory,way of approach, creative thoughts. Bad thoughts always arise in my mind. Now no more. Reading this failure stories has taken me aback , and now any how i have to stop it
August 24 Someone said: After i masturbate i feel guilty and weak then i don't feel like doing anything and that's what i did for one full year and failed... masturbation causes depression, you loose your brain power after masturbation i cant study i feel everybody hates me i feel like m lonely ... I had even health problems with it like back pain and then boils which are worst... masturbation is like a curse... i don't know why people say its healthy and good i say that's the worst thing and it will never give you success..
August 23 Someone said: Guys I am 27 years old from Pakistan. I started masturbation when I was 13 then it became an addiction. at this age I feel it's really bad habit and it really destroy ur body it make u weak.
August 22 Someone said: Hey guys, this addiction is very sad. i am very talented person with great ideas but i fail even to start a single thing out of the ideas that i have. i had stopped masturbating but lately it seems like i am starting again, i must say its nice but the after effects are sad. Time gets wasted. u know i am born again, for the past three weeks i have not been praying because i feel like o have failed God and myself, due to that fact, i do it even more than before. A lot of money has been wasted because i only get intrigued by internet porn...... Please help, i started the habit in 2002 i was 17, so u can just imagine how old i am now......
August 22 Someone said: what i'm saying is really true, i started masturbating at the age of 13 now i'm 23. I'm a strong person with strong athletic body and very intelligent student in education. But these are all before masturbating. After i got this habit everything has changed. First of all my concentration on studies became very low. Then i got noticed that my body is changed. Tightened muscles gets loosened. My bone density is very low now. If i do any small work means my body gets tired. I cant concentrate on my studies because the vital force to speed up my mind became very low due to masturbation, so that my teacher scolded me and my parents also scolded me. But i cant study well. I'm very shy to face people. But before masturbation I'm the one who guided everyone. Now my age is 23. I lost everything in my life. I had many dreams in my small age to become a great personality. But now I'm waste. A Shit, a piece of crap. My body became very lean. My strength gone. I lost confident in my life. I feel shame to face everyone. No friends to me. I struggled very much to complete my bachelors degree. But no job right now. Because i lost confident to search job. Now I'm living in a hell. Now i dont know how to live happily like others. How to speak confidently like others. Everything i lost. My precious memory, my health, my life everything lost. Only my body is living in this world. Be carefull everybody. Some peoples says that masturbation is healthy and it relieves stress. Dont believe that. It reduces stress when it is done. But after that your strength become very low. This really happened to my life. My life gone. But u people should be very carefull. The 20 years saving of semen will save you for next 40 years by the the way of satisfying your wife and do the common work without any tiredness. Thats what our body is made up of. If we wasted this precious semen unnaturally. Everything gets spoiled.
August 14 Someone said: hmmmm I am seriously addicted to this very irrittate and sinful habit ever since. I tried my possible best to terminate it but no avail even I fasted and pray BT prove abortive Ooga oo pls my pple how can I abstain pls help me oooo
August 12 Someone said: what i tell,it ruins my 11,12 n i still masturbate like an idiot
August 6 Someone said: I wanna stop the addiction of masturbation please help me anyone i am from india I am 18 yrs old and i was doing,this when i was 15and a1/2
August 3 Someone said: I need help.this masturbation of a thing has nw gone to the extent dat whenever I do it I am ashamed.besides am 31yrs old now,how can I stop this demonic act and I also hope its never too late?least I forge,I av bn masturbating since when I was like 12 if I could remember vividly.
July 28 Someone said; No more!!!!! I am fed up of it. It has ruined my personality, memory,way of approach, creative thoughts. Bad thoughts always arise in my mind. Now no more. Reading this failure stories has taken me aback , and now any how i have to stop it
July 25 Someone said: I am a women. I started masturbation when I was 19 because of my boyfriend. We were in a long distance relationship and he wanted to have phone sex which as well includes masturbation. It ruined my body. I became very weak, skinny, dark circles started appearing around my eyes. I look sick always. We broke up but till then masturbation has become a habit. Later I devoted myself to god and worshiping. I stopped for nearly a year. But I lost the right path and again started it. Now I am 22. I was masturbating just few minutes ago. After doing it, I felt miserable and started searching the internet on how to stop masturbation. And finally, I am glad that I found this website because it has increased my confidence that I can stop it. Masturbation makes me feel sick. I feel like to vomit after every time I do it. I get stomach ache and cramps in my body for a week after. My head hurts, I feel weak and lazy. It even affects the way I stand, sit and my body posture. It has destroyed my self confidence and concentration. Every time I try to study my mind is filled with all the shit. Thus affects my study. I was a bright student once and now I am not able to get good grades. I hate it. I am hating myself. The worst part is that it does not feel good and affects my mind. I want to stop it as soon as possible. Not just because of religious beliefs but also to attain a healthy state of mind and body, where my thoughts are clean, controlled and balanced. I am sure that I will never do it again.
July 25 Someone said: I was an addict but now I have controlled myself. If you too want to stop just keep your mind busy in good activities. Don't watch porn and do not read explicit texts. The moment you start thinking about it just go to (run to) someone and start talking to him about anything but sex. Or engage yourself in some activity such as yoga, reading, worshiping, exercise. REMEMBER there should be people around you, because you being alone , it is easier for the DEVIL to attack. Live and laugh with people. Develop a good habit like sketching, playing music, singing. Say prayers or hum your favorite song in bed till you sleep. In simple words, every time you think of it start thinking and doing something else. Have faith. Do worship, it helps a lot. It seems tough . . You may fail once or twice but later you will masturbate less frequently and stop one day soon. Believe me because I did the same. Only remember one thing "STOP THE VERY FIRST DIRTY THOUGHT"
July 18 Someone said: Wow! You cant believe me. I find myself in all of those stories. I started doing it at the age 17 while my friend taught me (he also learned it from a friend). At first it felt good until this moment when I found out it is not supposed to feel good. It is RUINING LIVES in an exchange for few seconds of pleasure. There was no1 to teach us the side effects. The only thing we knew was that it felt so good like no other thing we know prior to doing it. Deep inside, we knew it's bad though; esp religiously. For about 3 years after my first acquaintance with masturbation, I was doing it on average once a month because my access to internet was zero (I am from Africa). We only fantasize on partly-exposed women on the streets while walking or in classrooms, and go back home to yank by imagining what we saw during the day. We sometimes do it in front of each other with the friend who taught me. Later, then the moment I joined the university, the got some access to internet porn, and the frequency increased to once a week. This trend goes for about 5-7 years until I got a scholarship to USA, when my mildly habitual addiction to playing with my joysticks became even more frequent (on average daily) given the fast internet connectivity and better privacy. After a period of 2/3 year of daily masturbating, I started to notice all the worst experiences that you guys are mentioning, being lazy, bored, lost for appetite, lost for motivation to study/work, objectifying women, poor socializing, hair graying, hair thinning and finally hair losing. All the qualities I had (I used to be a uniquely good-looking and intelligent guy) are now ruined because of what once was started as fun and ended up to be the opposite, the worst tragedy of my life. I prayed to JESUS, and it seems now he is responding to my prayers that I am getting the courage to self-control my self. I am committing myself to restrain from doing it altogether, I have a lot better things to do and achieve. I still have a good future ahead me. I still hope I will shine once again by stopping doing this ugly habit and help my body and soul recover from all the destructions I brought to it. In deed, Life is beautiful without masturbation. Guys! We should control ourselves. What is not natural always comes with myriad of negative consequences. Masturbation is not any better addiction than smoking, alcohol. Even worse. Because it has a direct effect to your health, spirit which eventually will f** & ruin all aspects of your life. Thanks for sharing all your personal stories. They in deed were inspirations for me to keep resisting my urges and have a better self-control and a better life. Pray for yourself and for me.
July 13 Someone said: Masturbation has wrecked my life. No more to be said.
July 5 Someone said: Hello everyone, I started masturbating at the age of 14. I was a brilliant, lucky, intelligent and handsome guy, full of life and admired by many. Now I'm 24 and a living hell. This demonic act turned into something else, physically I'm so lean and ugly & mostly shy, I can't talk to girls, can't even look my fellow men in the face. Spiritually it attracts bad karma, everything in this world will be working against you, you can't progress in business or education. I was afraid of social gatherings even going to church cos of crowd and cos I look horrible. I watched as everything that matters to be taken away one after the other. Now I'm saved because I turned to God and never to masturbate again. Please stay away from this devilish act.
July 25 Someone said: I was an addict but now I have controlled myself. If you too want to stop just keep your mind busy in good activities. Don't watch porn and do not read explicit texts. The moment you start thinking about it just go to (run to) someone and start talking to him about anything but sex. Or engage yourself in some activity such as yoga, reading, worshiping, exercise. REMEMBER there should be people around you, because you being alone , it is easier for the DEVIL to attack. Live and laugh with people. Develop a good habit like sketching, playing music, singing. Say prayers or hum your favorite song in bed till you sleep. In simple words, every time you think of it start thinking and doing something else. Have faith. Do worship, it helps a lot. It seems tough . . You may fail once or twice but later you will masturbate less frequently and stop one day soon. Believe me because I did the same. Only remember one thing "STOP THE VERY FIRST DIRTY THOUGHT"
July 18 Someone said: Wow! You cant believe me. I find myself in all of those stories. I started doing it at the age 17 while my friend taught me (he also learned it from a friend). At first it felt good until this moment when I found out it is not supposed to feel good. It is RUINING LIVES in an exchange for few seconds of pleasure. There was no1 to teach us the side effects. The only thing we knew was that it felt so good like no other thing we know prior to doing it. Deep inside, we knew it's bad though; esp religiously. For about 3 years after my first acquaintance with masturbation, I was doing it on average once a month because my access to internet was zero (I am from Africa). We only fantasize on partly-exposed women on the streets while walking or in classrooms, and go back home to yank by imagining what we saw during the day. We sometimes do it in front of each other with the friend who taught me. Later, then the moment I joined the university, the got some access to internet porn, and the frequency increased to once a week. This trend goes for about 5-7 years until I got a scholarship to USA, when my mildly habitual addiction to playing with my joysticks became even more frequent (on average daily) given the fast internet connectivity and better privacy. After a period of 2/3 year of daily masturbating, I started to notice all the worst experiences that you guys are mentioning, being lazy, bored, lost for appetite, lost for motivation to study/work, objectifying women, poor socializing, hair graying, hair thinning and finally hair losing. All the qualities I had (I used to be a uniquely good-looking and intelligent guy) are now ruined because of what once was started as fun and ended up to be the opposite, the worst tragedy of my life. I prayed to JESUS, and it seems now he is responding to my prayers that I am getting the courage to self-control my self. I am committing myself to restrain from doing it altogether, I have a lot better things to do and achieve. I still have a good future ahead me. I still hope I will shine once again by stopping doing this ugly habit and help my body and soul recover from all the destructions I brought to it. In deed, Life is beautiful without masturbation. Guys! We should control ourselves. What is not natural always comes with myriad of negative consequences. Masturbation is not any better addiction than smoking, alcohol. Even worse. Because it has a direct effect to your health, spirit which eventually will f** & ruin all aspects of your life. Thanks for sharing all your personal stories. They in deed were inspirations for me to keep resisting my urges and have a better self-control and a better life. Pray for yourself and for me.
July 13 Someone said: Masturbation has wrecked my life. No more to be said.
July 5 Someone said: Hello everyone, I started masturbating at the age of 14. I was a brilliant, lucky, intelligent and handsome guy, full of life and admired by many. Now I'm 24 and a living hell. This demonic act turned into something else, physically I'm so lean and ugly & mostly shy, I can't talk to girls, can't even look my fellow men in the face. Spiritually it attracts bad karma, everything in this world will be working against you, you can't progress in business or education. I was afraid of social gatherings even going to church cos of crowd and cos I look horrible. I watched as everything that matters to be taken away one after the other. Now I'm saved because I turned to God and never to masturbate again. Please stay away from this devilish act.
July 4 Someone said: I'm a girl and I'm 12 I started masturbating for I think 3 months I'm not exactly sure.. I want to stop but sometimes I masturbate. I masturbate about 3-4 times I week. It's been becoming very addicting and my parents caught me watching porn when I was younger and I lied saying it was my siblings... I was curious and now I'm this addicted person. I'm ashamed of what I have come to.
July 1 Someone said: i started masturbation at the age of 14 and last year and this year i've been trying to quit it because i've realized the impact it has on my life,I'm only able to go a max of 2months without but then relapse and now i'm seventeen.And ever since i started masturbation is like i've become stupid and dumb, i'm unable to get an "A" in test,i'm socially awkward and it seems things have because i can't even look family members in the eyes when i have conversations with em.Even my teachers are unable to ask me polite questions in class bcos thy worry i'm goin to embarrass myself.before this i was confident and very intelligent but now i'm a scrap everything is difficult like climbing mount Everest.and i must study but i lack motivation bcos everything always goes wrong so i advise every1 to stop this habit if u haven't started gud for you.because we masterbators really suffer
June 28 Someone said: I think that god disapproves of masturbation. I have been doing it since I was nine. . But in all the years of trying not to do it anymore (the last 2 especially (I am 18). I struggle with stopping the habit. Point is, what am I going to do? Even when I try to stop, I eventually get what are called "wet dreams". Believe it or not over half the time I can recall sexual thoughts in my dreams each time this happens. : ( I hope people see this even if they can't do a thing for me. Especially people in my faith. We should change our attitudes about masturbation, not justifying it, just making it so we don't treat others like shit when they struggle with it. But simply I am expressing my distress. No matter what you struggle with, Christ is their with outstretched arms...
June 24: Hii !! Friends i am **********, from india my story is similar to these stories but yet interesting so, friends i start masturbating when i was in 9th standard at that time it feels very good to find such a new thing,but gradually after some times it starts affect me n my life.so,it affect me more as it ruins my self confidence which i think most important to do any work then again it ruins my 9 n 10 class academic years as well as my 11 n 12,now i am studying as a dropper to give my best in competitive exam but still today before reading this blog i m confused even i masturbated today,but now i am fully determined to stop this,please pray for me....
June 22: I started it when i was 11,i feel guilty everyday,,,i cant tell my parents nor friends,,i feel shameful in front of everybody.i want to Stop this addiction..........i am trying,but im not able to stop it,,,,it is ruining my life ..I'm just 15.......and i want to tell everybody who is reading this,please stop masturbating,it will ruin your life!
June 19 Someone said: plz any 1 dat hve read this pages plz stop masturbating it is very very horrible i started masturbating at age16 i use to be a very handsome young boy every 1 commented me i wz vry social now am 19 looking very old each time i try to control my self fr 3 days i will observe growth on my body but then after a failure i become something else. very drty,and lazy, alwz counting my days as if d world is over i hve tried all my best, bt to no avail i use porn nd plz anyone intrested lets team up and stop this.....it makes us to judge ourself plz plz plz plz plz we can stop lets try this last time i learnt that a period of 3weeks can do it we all hate it but dont think straight when d pleasure arrives its a very sturbborn feeling let us deal wt it badly here is my mobile number ************ choose someone send word of encouragement to each other evry 3 days choose me my name is *************
June 18: Hi i m from UK. Masturbation is really a bad habit. It not only destroy your physical abilities but also destroy you spriritually as well. You loose your confident and loose real sex after marriage. Which is a right of your wife.
July 1 Someone said: i started masturbation at the age of 14 and last year and this year i've been trying to quit it because i've realized the impact it has on my life,I'm only able to go a max of 2months without but then relapse and now i'm seventeen.And ever since i started masturbation is like i've become stupid and dumb, i'm unable to get an "A" in test,i'm socially awkward and it seems things have because i can't even look family members in the eyes when i have conversations with em.Even my teachers are unable to ask me polite questions in class bcos thy worry i'm goin to embarrass myself.before this i was confident and very intelligent but now i'm a scrap everything is difficult like climbing mount Everest.and i must study but i lack motivation bcos everything always goes wrong so i advise every1 to stop this habit if u haven't started gud for you.because we masterbators really suffer
June 28 Someone said: I think that god disapproves of masturbation. I have been doing it since I was nine. . But in all the years of trying not to do it anymore (the last 2 especially (I am 18). I struggle with stopping the habit. Point is, what am I going to do? Even when I try to stop, I eventually get what are called "wet dreams". Believe it or not over half the time I can recall sexual thoughts in my dreams each time this happens. : ( I hope people see this even if they can't do a thing for me. Especially people in my faith. We should change our attitudes about masturbation, not justifying it, just making it so we don't treat others like shit when they struggle with it. But simply I am expressing my distress. No matter what you struggle with, Christ is their with outstretched arms...
June 24: Hii !! Friends i am **********, from india my story is similar to these stories but yet interesting so, friends i start masturbating when i was in 9th standard at that time it feels very good to find such a new thing,but gradually after some times it starts affect me n my life.so,it affect me more as it ruins my self confidence which i think most important to do any work then again it ruins my 9 n 10 class academic years as well as my 11 n 12,now i am studying as a dropper to give my best in competitive exam but still today before reading this blog i m confused even i masturbated today,but now i am fully determined to stop this,please pray for me....
June 22: I started it when i was 11,i feel guilty everyday,,,i cant tell my parents nor friends,,i feel shameful in front of everybody.i want to Stop this addiction..........i am trying,but im not able to stop it,,,,it is ruining my life ..I'm just 15.......and i want to tell everybody who is reading this,please stop masturbating,it will ruin your life!
June 19 Someone said: plz any 1 dat hve read this pages plz stop masturbating it is very very horrible i started masturbating at age16 i use to be a very handsome young boy every 1 commented me i wz vry social now am 19 looking very old each time i try to control my self fr 3 days i will observe growth on my body but then after a failure i become something else. very drty,and lazy, alwz counting my days as if d world is over i hve tried all my best, bt to no avail i use porn nd plz anyone intrested lets team up and stop this.....it makes us to judge ourself plz plz plz plz plz we can stop lets try this last time i learnt that a period of 3weeks can do it we all hate it but dont think straight when d pleasure arrives its a very sturbborn feeling let us deal wt it badly here is my mobile number ************ choose someone send word of encouragement to each other evry 3 days choose me my name is *************
June 18: Hi i m from UK. Masturbation is really a bad habit. It not only destroy your physical abilities but also destroy you spriritually as well. You loose your confident and loose real sex after marriage. Which is a right of your wife.
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June 17 Someone said: I am form Iran. The only country that no boy can have GF and vice versa. Now I'm 20. I started masturbation when I was 9 and It's really disgusting. but now I'm studying electrical engineering and I really need my mind and that Damned habit is ruining my mind. To people who has not started masturbation yet : I'm begging you guys please please have normal sex. find a good partner and have sex with her. and do not compromise. God Bless Ya All/
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June 14 Someone said: I've been doing this from the age of like 7 I'm fiveteen now. So I've wasted more than half my life. My parents don't know, only my sister does, were both trying to stop. Please pray for me I need help.
June 9: I started masturbating in 9th and it gave me that high i was a very innocent guy who was forced to masturbate due to peer pressure i am now in 12th and i am not able to get these dirty thoughts out of my mind it is costing me a lot and I am not able to concentrate on my studies please help
June 7 Someone said: I started 16 and now am 17, it feels good but with what u guys mentioned am quitting it for real before it turns me into something else.
June 4 Someone said: Masturbation is very bad stop it today and be saved.i av stopped it and am a different person now,after 17years i av been in bondage.Accept God he is the only person that can help you,because u alone cannot help your self.
June 3 Someone said: Hi guys,I'm from India and started masturbating when i was 13,after some friends in school told me about it.When i did it the first time,I had thoughts i never tough i would about girls.Now, i'm 18.5 and i realize it was changing me.Till 15 i was fine ,though my studies studies were suffering and i felt less energetic.If i didn't do it for a couple of days my strength returned.When I was in the 11th grade and about 15 yrs old ,one day everything changed.My whole body shattererd.My body is completely broken,i feel tired always 24x7.My mind has stopped working completely. I MUST TELL YOU CONTRARY TO THE POPULAR BELIEF MASTURBATION HAS A LIMIT KNOWN AS SEXUAL EXHAUSTION.AFTER THAT POINT ,YOUR LIFE WILL TURN HELL. So stop now. I'm in this hell and its put me far away from the sky i dreamed to touched.I'm fighting.Trying to rebuild my body and mind and everything. Friends stop this act now ITS LIKE TRADING YOUR SOUL TO THE DEVIL (WHEREIN IT GOES TO HELL) FOR A BOTTLE OF WINE. This thing turned my life upside down.I lost my dream college ,myfriends,the girl i liked ,my body and everything. Find the light within you.That's who you are.You are more than your mistakes.This what i believe. Live a clean and happy life.
May 30, 2014 Someone said: I think I started masturbating at the age of 4 or 5. I really was not knowing what I did until I was 12 year old and now I am 17 I still masturbate and find pleasure in it. It's like more than 12 years I have been masturbating and I am an addict, I tried to stop it many times but I can't. I have slight memory problems and recently my hair also started falling . After searching in net I understood that masturbation affects hair, memory and so on. But the thing is I started watching porn only after 12 and till that I was completely unaware but did it only because I find pleasure in doing it I really want to stop it as I want hair :) Some one please help me
May 25, 2014 Someone said: How it started I don't know.....I surrender all to Jesus.
June 9: I started masturbating in 9th and it gave me that high i was a very innocent guy who was forced to masturbate due to peer pressure i am now in 12th and i am not able to get these dirty thoughts out of my mind it is costing me a lot and I am not able to concentrate on my studies please help
June 7 Someone said: I started 16 and now am 17, it feels good but with what u guys mentioned am quitting it for real before it turns me into something else.
June 4 Someone said: Masturbation is very bad stop it today and be saved.i av stopped it and am a different person now,after 17years i av been in bondage.Accept God he is the only person that can help you,because u alone cannot help your self.
June 3 Someone said: Hi guys,I'm from India and started masturbating when i was 13,after some friends in school told me about it.When i did it the first time,I had thoughts i never tough i would about girls.Now, i'm 18.5 and i realize it was changing me.Till 15 i was fine ,though my studies studies were suffering and i felt less energetic.If i didn't do it for a couple of days my strength returned.When I was in the 11th grade and about 15 yrs old ,one day everything changed.My whole body shattererd.My body is completely broken,i feel tired always 24x7.My mind has stopped working completely. I MUST TELL YOU CONTRARY TO THE POPULAR BELIEF MASTURBATION HAS A LIMIT KNOWN AS SEXUAL EXHAUSTION.AFTER THAT POINT ,YOUR LIFE WILL TURN HELL. So stop now. I'm in this hell and its put me far away from the sky i dreamed to touched.I'm fighting.Trying to rebuild my body and mind and everything. Friends stop this act now ITS LIKE TRADING YOUR SOUL TO THE DEVIL (WHEREIN IT GOES TO HELL) FOR A BOTTLE OF WINE. This thing turned my life upside down.I lost my dream college ,myfriends,the girl i liked ,my body and everything. Find the light within you.That's who you are.You are more than your mistakes.This what i believe. Live a clean and happy life.
May 30, 2014 Someone said: I think I started masturbating at the age of 4 or 5. I really was not knowing what I did until I was 12 year old and now I am 17 I still masturbate and find pleasure in it. It's like more than 12 years I have been masturbating and I am an addict, I tried to stop it many times but I can't. I have slight memory problems and recently my hair also started falling . After searching in net I understood that masturbation affects hair, memory and so on. But the thing is I started watching porn only after 12 and till that I was completely unaware but did it only because I find pleasure in doing it I really want to stop it as I want hair :) Some one please help me
May 25, 2014 Someone said: How it started I don't know.....I surrender all to Jesus.
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May 20, 2014 Someone said: I don't remember the age that I started masturbating but whenever I first started I had no clue what it was I was doing but I knew it felt good. Im a girl by the way. Now that I have grown up and become more knowledgeable I feel extremely guilty. Like I have looked up porn and masturbated to it. Like I just had these sexual urges I guess and I wasn't thinking twice and now I feel extremely guilty and especially depressed. I have stopped, though, which I should've a long time ago. I just can't believe myself that I did these things. They have forever scarred me and I can't help but cry every day. I have
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never told anyone this before but I feel as if sharing this I can relieve some stress. All I think about anymore is that I am a sick human being and I'm so different from the rest, especially, my sister. It makes me sick to my stomach. I am a strong Christian girl and I have prayed every night for God to forgive me and help me erase some of my memories. I watch everyone around me and try to see if I'm not the only one who has sinned and did these things. The Devil has tempted me to sin and I did. That sickens me. If you have never masturbated, don't. It destroys you in every way possible. I think about it everyday and I become extremely depressed. My mom and sister have observed me and asked what's wrong. I've thought about telling them sometimes but I can't bring myself to. I wish I could live a happy life.